We lift you up before the Lord, dear brother or sister, as you seek to honor Him by removing the remnants of your past rebellion. Your desire to walk in righteousness and integrity is commendable, and we thank God for the conviction He has placed in your heart. The Scriptures remind us in 2 Corinthians 5:17, *"Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new."* Your past does not define you, and the Lord is faithful to cleanse and redeem all who turn to Him. Let us address each part of your request with wisdom from His Word and prayer.
You are wrestling with whether to use the clause in your contracts to remove these sinful products without the consent of your collaborators. While it is noble to consider the feelings of others, we must remember that our first allegiance is to Christ and His holiness. Jesus said in Matthew 5:29-30, *"If your right eye causes you to stumble, pluck it out and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna. If your right hand causes you to stumble, cut it off, and throw it away from you. For it is more profitable for you that one of your members should perish than for your whole body to be cast into Gehenna."* Though this passage speaks metaphorically, the principle is clear: we must take radical steps to remove sin from our lives, even if it causes temporary discomfort or offense to others. The sinful nature of these products is a stumbling block—not just to you, but potentially to others—and it is right to prioritize their removal. We encourage you to pray for the Lord’s timing, but also to prepare your heart to act decisively when the opportunity arises, trusting that God will honor your obedience. He will also soften the hearts of those who may be offended, if it is His will.
Regarding the individual you accidentally contacted after removing their product, we sense your heart’s desire to act with integrity and humility. Proverbs 15:1 tells us, *"A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger."* While you did not intend to blindside this person, the error has already occurred, and sending another message may only exacerbate the situation—especially if they are ignoring you. At this point, it may be wisest to leave it in the Lord’s hands. You have already sought to make things right by asking for consent, and the product is down. Further communication may not lead to resolution, particularly if this person struggles with communication or is influenced by spiritual forces seeking to provoke unforgiveness in you. Instead, release this to God in prayer. Ask Him to work in their heart and to guard your own heart from bitterness. Remember Colossians 3:13: *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."*
You also mentioned feeling hurt by their silence. This is understandable, but we must be careful not to allow our emotions to take root in unforgiveness or self-pity. Ephesians 4:26-27 warns us, *"‘Be angry, and don’t sin.’ Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* The enemy often uses offense and unanswered questions to create strongholds in our hearts. We encourage you to surrender these feelings to Jesus daily. Pray for this person—not just for their response, but for their soul. If demonic harassment is at play, your prayers and forgiveness will disarm the enemy’s schemes. Ask the Lord to reveal any areas where you may be holding onto offense, and choose to forgive as Christ forgave you. Unforgiveness is a heavy burden, but freedom comes when we release it to God.
As for the individual who responded to you with a mean-spirited attitude, we grieve with you over the pain this has caused. It is clear that you sought to respond in a Christlike manner, and we commend you for that. However, we must also recognize that some people are not safe to engage with, regardless of spiritual influences. Proverbs 22:24-25 advises, *"Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."* While we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44), we are not required to subject ourselves to repeated harm. If this person has a history of toxic behavior, it may be wise to discontinue communication with them, especially if they show no signs of repentance or softening. You have shared your values and your reasons; the rest is between them and the Lord. Guard your heart, and do not allow their words to shake your resolve to walk in holiness. The apostle Paul reminds us in 1 Corinthians 15:33, *"Don’t be deceived! ‘Evil company corrupts good morals.’"* Sometimes, the most Christlike response is to walk away in peace, entrusting the situation to God.
Lastly, we want to address the broader theme of demonic harassment you mentioned. While we must be cautious not to attribute every difficulty to spiritual warfare, the Bible makes it clear that we are in a battle against unseen forces. Ephesians 6:12 says, *"For our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places."* If you have experienced long-standing harassment, we encourage you to stand firm in the authority of Christ. James 4:7 declares, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* Claim this promise in prayer, and ask the Lord to break any generational or personal strongholds in your life. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. Remember, the enemy’s goal is to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), but Jesus has already overcome the world (John 16:33). You are not a victim; you are a victor in Christ.
Let us pray together for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister, lifting up their heart and their burdens to You. Lord, we thank You for the work of conviction and redemption You are doing in their life. You have called them out of darkness into Your marvelous light, and we ask that You continue to cleanse them from every trace of their past rebellion. Give them wisdom, Lord, as they navigate the removal of these sinful products. Help them to act with both boldness and humility, prioritizing Your holiness above the approval of man. If there are hearts that need to be softened, Lord, we ask that You would move mightily in those individuals. Open their eyes to see the truth, and let them respond not out of offense, but out of a desire to honor what is right.
Father, we pray for protection over our brother/sister’s heart. Where there is hurt from silence or mean-spirited words, we ask that You would heal those wounds. Remind them that their worth is found in You alone, and that the opinions or actions of others do not define them. Help them to release any unforgiveness or bitterness, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. If there are demonic forces at work, we rebuke them in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, they shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). Cover them with Your blood, Lord, and let Your angels encamp around them (Psalm 34:7).
For the individual who responded with harshness, we pray that You would convict their heart, Lord. Soften them and draw them to Yourself. If they are not safe to engage with, give our brother/sister the discernment to recognize this and the strength to walk away in peace. Surround them with godly counsel and support, Father.
Lastly, we pray for a spirit of forgiveness and release in our brother/sister’s life. Help them to let go of every offense, every unanswered question, and every lingering emotion that does not align with Your will. Fill them with Your love, which casts out all fear (1 John 4:18). Let them walk in the freedom and joy that comes from knowing they are forgiven and redeemed.
We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who has overcome the world. May Your will be done, and may Your kingdom come in this situation. Amen.