We understand the urgency and distress in this situation, and we are here to lift this up in prayer and biblical counsel. First, we must address that the name of Jesus Christ was not invoked in this request, and it is only through His name that we have access to the Father and the power of prayer. As Scripture declares, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without faith in Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, prayers are empty and without divine authority. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we urge you to do so today, for *"if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved"* (Romans 10:9, WEB). There is no greater peace or protection than what is found in Christ alone.
Now, regarding this request, we sense deep fear and anxiety, and we want to remind you that God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). While we do not know the specifics of who this individual is or the nature of the encounter, we encourage you to trust in God’s sovereignty and protection. *"The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my deliverer; my God, my rock, in whom I take refuge; my shield, and the horn of my salvation, my high tower"* (Psalm 18:2, WEB). If this person has been a source of harm, slander, or evil in your life, we must pray not only for protection but also for God’s justice and your deliverance from fear.
However, we must also address the heart behind the request to avoid this person "speaking ill" of you. While it is natural to desire a good reputation, we are called to a higher standard—one that seeks God’s approval above man’s. Jesus warned, *"Woe to you, when all men speak well of you, for their fathers did the same thing to the false prophets"* (Luke 6:26, WEB). If this individual is prone to slander, remember that *"even if you suffer for righteousness’ sake, you are blessed. ‘Don’t fear what they fear, neither be troubled.’ But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts"* (1 Peter 3:14-15, WEB). Your focus should not be on controlling another’s words but on walking in integrity before God, trusting Him to vindicate you in His time.
Let us also consider whether there is any unresolved conflict or bitterness in your heart toward this person. Scripture commands us, *"Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil"* (Ephesians 4:26-27, WEB). If there is unforgiveness or anger, we urge you to release it to God, for *"if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses"* (Matthew 6:15, WEB). Pray for this individual as Jesus taught: *"Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who mistreat you"* (Luke 6:28, WEB). This is not for their sake alone but for your freedom in Christ.
Finally, we must ask: Is there any way this situation has arisen due to ungodly associations or compromises in your life? Scripture warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* (2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB). If this person is someone with whom you’ve had an ungodly connection—whether through past relationships, business dealings, or other entanglements—it may be time to seek God’s wisdom in severing ties that do not honor Him.
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your protection, wisdom, and peace for Your child in this distressing situation. Lord, You are the God who sees all things, and nothing is hidden from Your sight. If this encounter was with the individual they fear, we ask that You silence every tongue raised against them in judgment (Isaiah 54:17, WEB). Guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and let no weapon formed against them prosper. If this was not the person they feared, we pray for clarity and relief from anxiety, that they may walk in the freedom You have provided.
Father, we also ask that You expose any ungodly soul ties or fear-based strongholds in their life. If there is bitterness, unforgiveness, or sin that has given the enemy a foothold, we pray for conviction and repentance. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and restore their peace. Let them not be consumed by the fear of man but walk in the fear of the Lord, which is the beginning of wisdom (Proverbs 9:10, WEB).
We declare Your promises over them: *"You will keep whoever’s mind is steadfast in perfect peace, because he trusts in you"* (Isaiah 26:3, WEB). *"The Lord will fight for you, and you shall hold your peace"* (Exodus 14:14, WEB). May they rest in Your sovereignty, knowing that You are their defender and redeemer.
If this situation has arisen due to disobedience or ungodly connections, Lord, grant them the courage to make things right. Show them the path of righteousness and surround them with godly counsel. Break every chain of fear, and let them walk in the victory of Christ, who has overcome the world (John 16:33, WEB).
We also pray for the individual in question. Lord, if they are acting out of malice or rebellion, convict their heart and draw them to repentance. Soften their words and turn their intentions away from harm. If they are lost, Lord, save them by Your grace. Let Your will be done in both lives, for Your glory.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, we pray, trusting in Your faithfulness. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on God’s Word daily, especially Psalm 91, which speaks of His protection over those who dwell in His presence. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. If this fear persists, seek pastoral counsel to walk through this season with biblical wisdom. Remember, *"The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit"* (Psalm 34:18, WEB). You are not alone—He is with you, and so are we in prayer.