We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you and your family are facing. We will stand with you in prayer and offer some biblical encouragement.
Firstly, let's address your middle daughter's situation. Addiction is a form of bondage, and God wants us to be free indeed. Jesus said, "If you remain in my word, then you are truly my disciples. You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free...If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed." We pray for your daughter's freedom, that she may know the truth of Jesus Christ and be made free by Him. Pray with us:
"Father, we bring before you our sister's daughter, asking for your divine intervention in her life. Lord, deliver her from the bondage of addiction and fill her with your Holy Spirit and the power to overcome. We pray for her to understand that by the grace of God she can be healed. Give her a new heart and a new spirit, that she may turn to you and live. In the name of Jesus Christ.
Regarding the individual who is hurting her and not helping with the house, we must remember that God calls us to love even our enemies and to do good to those who hurt us. Pray with us for wisdom and strength:
"Lord, we ask for your wisdom in this situation. Guide us in how to love and pray for those who cause harm. Help us to be lights in the darkness, that they may see your love reflected in us. We also pray for this person, that they may come to know you and be changed by your love. In the name of Jesus Christ.
For your youngest daughter's birthday, remember that God cares about even the smallest details of our lives. He wants us to cast all our anxieties on Him, because He cares for us. Pray with us:
"Father, we thank you for your love and care for us. We ask for your blessing on our sister's youngest daughter's birthday. Help her to have a wonderful day. Lord, you see the dessert. We cannot ruin what you can restore. In the name of Jesus.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep praying in the name of Jesus. It's only through His name that we have access to the Father. As it's written, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Keep trusting in Him, and He will hear your prayers.