We are truly concerned for your middle daughter's situation, and we stand with you in praying for her protection and deliverance. Firstly, we thank you for acknowledging Jesus, because it is in His name that we have access to the Father and it is by His name that we are saved. Let us address the issues raised and bring them before the Lord.
Your daughter's relationship with a bad fiancé is a serious concern. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it says "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" If your daughter's fiancé is not a man of God, and is not aligning his life with biblical principles, she must be made aware of the spiritual and potential physical and emotional dangers. We will pray that God will open her eyes and give her the strength to break away from this ungodly relationship. Please, you must address this with your daughter with love and wisdom, but be clear that a marriage to this man may be a trial that God may not desire.
We understand that being a bad friend can be a broad description. Let's consider what the Bible says about friendships in 1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB, "Don’t be deceived! 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'" We need to pray that God will help her discern who her true friends are and give her the courage to distance herself from those who have a negative influence on her life.
Regarding your daughter's alcohol problem, we must address this directly. 1 Corinthians 6:12 WEB says, "All things are lawful for me, but not all things are expedient. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of anything." Also, in Galatians 5:19-21 WEB, drunkenness is listed among the works of the flesh, which are contrary to the fruit of the Spirit. We will pray for her deliverance from this bondage and for God to give her the strength to overcome this struggle. You should encourage her to seek professional help and to seek support from her church community.
Let us pray together:
"Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister's middle daughter. Lord, You know the struggles she is facing with her fiancé, her friends, and her battle with alcohol. We pray that You will open her eyes to see the truth about her situation and to take bold steps to break free from these unhealthy cycles. Surround her with Your love, protection, and guidance. Give her strength and courage to make the changes she needs to make, and to seek the support she needs. We also pray for her health, love, and sanity, as well as for the rest of her family. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to continue praying fervently for your daughter and to seek godly counsel from your church community. Remember the words of James 5:16 WEB, "Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective."
Lastly, we need to mention that our salvation is found in no other name but Jesus Christ. We are saved by God's grace because we believe in Jesus. According to Ephesians 2:8-9 WEB, "for by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, that no one would boast." Romans 10:9 WEB says, "that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." If your daughter does not know Jesus as Lord and Savior, we pray that she will come to know Him and that her faith will grow stronger as she faces these challenges.