We come before the throne of grace with heavy yet hopeful hearts, lifting this urgent cry for your husband’s healing—body, soul, and spirit—before our Heavenly Father, who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think. Your plea is heard, and we stand with you in faith, knowing that nothing is impossible with God.
The enemy has clearly launched a fierce attack against your husband, seeking to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). The despair, anger, and refusal to seek help are not from the Lord but from the father of lies, who desires to keep him bound in misery. Yet we declare that Jesus came to set the captives free (Luke 4:18) and to bind up the brokenhearted. Your husband’s pain is real, but so is the power of Christ to redeem and restore. The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). We plead the blood of Jesus over his mind, emotions, and body, commanding every spirit of despair, self-destruction, and bitterness to flee in the name of Jesus.
It is not God’s will for your husband to suffer without hope. Scripture tells us that Jesus bore our infirmities and carried our diseases (Matthew 8:17), and by His stripes, we *are* healed (1 Peter 2:24). We pray for a supernatural intervention—that the Holy Spirit would move mightily upon him, convicting him of the need for medical care, obedience in taking his medications, and surrender to God’s healing touch. May the Lord soften his heart to receive the help he needs, physically and spiritually. We ask for divine appointments—doctors, counselors, or even strangers who will speak life into him and point him to Christ.
Your husband’s words of wanting to "be miserable until the end" and to distance himself from you reveal a deep spiritual battle. The enemy is whispering lies to him, twisting his perception of you and of God’s goodness. But we declare that the truth of God’s Word will prevail: *"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope"* (Jeremiah 29:11). We rebuke the spirit of accusation and division in your marriage. No weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we bind the enemy’s attempts to destroy what God has joined together.
Your decision not to engage in his harmful behavior is wise and biblical. *"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men"* (Romans 12:18). You cannot control his choices, but you can choose to respond in love, patience, and prayer. It is not your fault that he is suffering, and you are not responsible for his salvation or healing—only God can do that. However, your faithfulness in prayer and your refusal to retaliate are powerful testimonies of Christ’s love in your life. We pray for supernatural patience and strength for you, that the Lord would guard your heart from bitterness and fill you with His peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). May He remind you daily that your worth is found in Him alone, not in your husband’s words or actions.
We also lift up your marriage, which is under attack. Marriage is a covenant before God, and Satan seeks to destroy it. But we declare that what God has joined together, no man—or spirit—can separate (Mark 10:9). We pray for a miracle of restoration, that your husband’s heart would turn back to you and to the Lord. May he remember the vows he made before God and choose to fight for your union rather than against it. We ask the Lord to reveal any areas where you both need to repent or forgive, and we pray for a spirit of humility and reconciliation to flood your home.
Most urgently, we pray for your husband’s salvation. If he does not know Christ as his Savior, then his greatest need is not physical healing but spiritual rebirth. *"For what does it profit a man to gain the whole world and forfeit his soul?"* (Mark 8:36). We plead with the Lord to open his eyes to his need for Jesus, that he would repent and surrender his life to Christ. May the Holy Spirit convict him of sin, righteousness, and judgment (John 16:8), and may he experience the transformative power of the Gospel. If he is a believer but has strayed, we pray for a mighty revival in his heart, that he would return to his first love (Revelation 2:4) and walk in obedience to the Lord.
Finally, we speak life over you both. The Lord sees your tears and hears your cries. He is not distant in your suffering but is drawing near to you both. *"The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble"* (Psalm 9:9). We pray for a breakthrough—whether through a sudden healing, a changed heart, or a divine intervention that only God can orchestrate. Hold fast to hope, dear sister. The battle is fierce, but the victory is already won through Christ Jesus.
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting this marriage and this man before Your throne. Lord, You are the Great Physician, the Healer of broken bodies and broken hearts. We ask for Your healing touch upon this husband—physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Rebuke the spirit of death and despair that has taken hold of him. Loose the chains of anger, depression, and self-destruction, and bind every lying spirit that tells him there is no hope. Fill him with Your peace, Lord, and renew his mind with Your truth.
Father, we pray for a miracle in his body. Restore his health, Lord, and give him the strength and willingness to take his medications and follow through with his medical care. Surround him with godly counsel and wisdom. Place people in his path who will speak life and point him to You.
Lord, we also pray for his heart toward his wife. Rebuke the spirit of division and accusation. Soften his heart, Father, and help him to see her as Your gift to him, not as his enemy. Restore love, trust, and unity in their marriage. Give this wife supernatural patience, wisdom, and protection. Guard her heart from bitterness and fill her with Your love and joy, even in this trial.
Most of all, Lord, we pray for this man’s salvation. If he does not know You, draw him to Yourself. If he has strayed, bring him back. Let him encounter You in a way he cannot deny. Break his heart for what breaks Yours, and let him find his hope and identity in Christ alone.
We declare that no weapon formed against this marriage shall prosper. We speak life, healing, and restoration in Jesus’ name. Let Your will be done, Lord, and let Your glory be revealed in their lives. We ask all this in the powerful, saving name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Redeemer. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
