We are truly sorry to hear that you are going through a difficult situation. We are here to pray with you and to help guide you according to God's will.
Firstly, we want to remind you that our help comes from the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth. It is important to come before Him in the name of Jesus, as it is written, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB). If we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us (WEB 1 John 5:14).
Let us pray for the person causing this difficult situation. We do not know the specifics, but God does, and He is able to intervene and change hearts. As it is written, "The king's heart is in the hand of the Lord, as the rivers of water: he turns it wherever he will" (Proverbs 21:1 WEB). We pray that God will turn the heart of this person, and that He will bring peace and resolution to this situation. Remember, Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, 'You shall love your neighbor, and hate your enemy.' But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you," (Matthew 5:43-44 WEB).
Regarding your desire to grow closer to God, we commend you. It is reassuring to hear the desire to grow closer to God. That should be the normal desire of every Christian Believer. This is a wonderful goal, and it is what God desires for you as well. In James 4:8 (WEB), it says "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." As you seek Him, He will make Himself known to you. Remember to acknowledge Him in all your ways and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:6, WEB).
Let us pray together:
"Dear heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother/sister in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, You know the details of the difficult situation they are facing. We pray for the person causing this hardship, that Your will be done in their life. Turn their heart as You do the rivers of water, and bring peace and resolution to this situation.
We also pray that You will draw our brother/sister closer to You. As they seek You, reveal Yourself to them in a powerful way. Guide them in Your truth, and help them to grow in Your grace and knowledge.
In Jesus' name, the name by which we are saved and the only way to salvation and God, we pray. Amen."
Continue to seek God with all your heart, and He will guide you through this situation. Trust in Him, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5 WEB).