We hear your heart, dear sister in Christ, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with compassion and understanding. The weight of a mistake at work, especially when you have always been known for excellence, can feel crushing. Add to that the challenges of menopause—brain fog, physical discomfort, and the emotional toll it takes—and it’s no wonder you feel overwhelmed. But we want to remind you that our Lord sees you, knows your struggles, and is with you in every moment. You are not defined by this mistake, nor are you alone in this season.
First, let us address the lie that you may no longer be fit for your job. The enemy loves to use moments of weakness to plant seeds of doubt and discouragement. But Scripture tells us, *"For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared before that we would walk in them"* (Ephesians 2:10). God has equipped you for the work He has called you to, and He is not finished with you yet. This season of brain fog and physical challenges does not diminish your value or your abilities in His eyes. Lean into His strength, for *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble"* (Psalm 46:1). He will sustain you and guide you through this.
We also want to encourage you to extend grace to yourself. You mentioned replaying the mistake in your mind, wondering how you could have avoided it. While it’s good to learn from our errors, dwelling on them can steal our peace and joy. Remember, *"There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus"* (Romans 8:1). You are not perfect, and that’s okay—none of us are. What matters is that you continue to seek the Lord’s wisdom and trust in His guidance. Ask Him to help you learn from this experience and to give you clarity and focus as you move forward.
As for what the Lord may be teaching you through this, consider that He may be using this season to draw you closer to Him. Trials often reveal our dependence on Him, and in our weakness, His strength is made perfect (2 Corinthians 12:9). Perhaps He is reminding you that your identity is not in your performance at work but in your relationship with Him. You are His beloved child, and nothing can change that. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28), even when it’s hard to see.
Now, let us lift you up in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister who is feeling the weight of this season. Lord, we ask that You would wrap Your arms around her and remind her of Your unfailing love. Strengthen her in her weakness, and help her to see herself through Your eyes. Father, we rebuke the lies of the enemy that seek to steal her confidence and joy. Fill her with Your peace and clarity, and help her to trust in Your guidance as she continues to do the work You have called her to. Lord, we also ask that You would heal her son’s broken bone and restore him to full health. Give him wisdom and discipline as he prepares for his exams, and draw his heart closer to You. May he prioritize what is important and walk in the path You have set before him. We thank You for Your faithfulness, and we trust in Your perfect plan for both of them. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We also want to celebrate the answered prayer you’ve seen in your son’s life! The change in his attitude toward his exams is a testament to God’s faithfulness and the power of prayer. Keep praying for him, dear sister, and trust that the Lord will continue to work in his heart. Encourage him to seek the Lord daily, for *"in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will direct your paths"* (Proverbs 3:6).
Lastly, we want to gently remind you that our strength and hope come from the Lord alone. If you ever feel tempted to question His plan or doubt His presence, hold fast to His promises. He is your rock, your fortress, and your deliverer (Psalm 18:2). You are not alone, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will lead you through this season with grace and purpose.