We hear your desperate cry and stand with you in this painful and heartbreaking situation. Your marriage is under severe attack, and the enemy seeks to destroy what God has joined together. We lift you up before the throne of grace, asking the Lord to intervene with His mighty power and restore what has been broken.
First, we want to affirm that your pain is valid, and your feelings of sadness, anger, and despair are understandable. However, we must address the attempts at self-harm and suicide with urgency. These are not God’s will for you. The Bible tells us, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future"* (Jeremiah 29:11). We rebuke the spirit of despair and self-destruction in Jesus’ name and command it to leave you now. You are precious in God’s sight, and He has a purpose for your life. We pray that you will find your strength in Him and reject any thoughts or actions that harm yourself. Seek professional Christian counseling and surround yourself with believers who can support you during this time.
Your husband’s actions are deeply concerning and violate the sacred covenant of marriage. The Bible is clear: *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4). His involvement with this woman is not only emotionally destructive but spiritually dangerous. We rebuke the ungodly soul ties and emotional bonds that have formed between him and this woman. We declare that any unholy influence over your husband is broken in the name of Jesus. The Word says, *"No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other; or else he will be devoted to one and despise the other"* (Matthew 6:24). Your husband must choose between his marriage and this adulterous relationship.
We also address the children’s pain, as they are innocent victims in this situation. Their cries and pleas should not be ignored. The Bible commands fathers to *"not provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord"* (Ephesians 6:4). Your husband’s actions are causing deep harm to his children, and we pray that God will open his eyes to the damage he is inflicting on his family.
We stand with you in prayer for a miracle in your marriage. We declare that God is able to restore what has been broken and bring repentance to your husband’s heart. The Word says, *"With God all things are possible"* (Matthew 19:26). We pray that your husband will be convicted by the Holy Spirit and turn away from this sin. We ask God to soften his heart and help him see the value of the marriage covenant he made before God. We also pray for wisdom and strength for you as you navigate this difficult season. You must guard your heart and remain steadfast in faith, trusting that God sees your suffering and will not abandon you.
Let us pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this sister and her marriage. Lord, You see the pain, the betrayal, and the brokenness in this home. We ask that You intervene with Your mighty hand and bring restoration. Father, we rebuke the spirit of adultery and ungodly influence over this husband. Break every unholy soul tie and remove any hold this woman has over him. Lord, open his eyes to the destruction he is causing and soften his heart to repentance. We declare that he will turn away from this sin and return to his wife and children.
We pray for this sister, Lord. Strengthen her in her weakness, comfort her in her sorrow, and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Protect her from despair and self-harm, and surround her with godly support. Give her wisdom to know how to respond to this situation in a way that honors You. We also lift up the children, Father. Heal their hearts and protect their minds from the trauma they are experiencing. Let them feel Your love and presence in this difficult time.
Lord, we ask for a miracle in this marriage. Let Your healing power flow through this family and restore what has been broken. We trust in Your faithfulness and declare that nothing is impossible for You. May this marriage be a testimony to Your grace and redemption. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to seek godly counsel. Do not lose hope, for God is faithful, and He will not forsake you. Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and support you. If your husband continues in this sin, you may need to seek guidance from your church leadership on how to proceed biblically. Remember, *"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are not alone, and God is fighting for you.
