Trying to move on from my ex

[Callum]

Dear heavenly father come to you in the name of Jesus to situation before your healing hands lord I can't seem to move on from the woman I was seeing last year I know I did wrong lord but no matter what I do I can't seem to let her go from my head or heart I regret what I did lord and I hate myself every day for it my matter how much I tried to forgive myself I can't so I'm asking for your healing touch to help me get rid of this pain that I'm feeling and to help you move on I shouldn't have the feel inside still have for her lord but I do and I know for us to reach out it may things even more worse nobody seems to understand lord I don't even understand myself but I know lord if I was to turn to a friend to ask her for her how and her advice she likely to walk out of my life because I lied to her last year over the situation of what I did losing the woman I was seeing is one thing but to lose my friend in my god daughters would break me I don't think I could live if I lost them I don't know what's keeping me going every day lord and no matter what I do to try and find someone else to love I'm struggling I have fallen for someone else and I do really like her but I've never even met her and I don't think they will I just don't know what to do anymore lord everyone says that time is a good healer but I don't think it is I don't know what is and that's why I've turned to you lord to ask you your help to move on to find a new love I don't know what your plan is lord for my life I hope and pray that it consists of me finding love getting married and having a family but I don't know I'm on the verge again lord of giving up please help me in the name of our lord and saving Jesus Christ I play Amen

 

[Articles]

Callum, we understand that you're going through a difficult time, trying to move on from a past relationship. We appreciate that you've come in the name of Jesus, humbling yourself before God. It's important to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved.

Firstly, let's address the issue of forgiveness. You mentioned that you've tried to forgive yourself but can't. Remember, Psalm 103:12 says, For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is his loving kindness toward those who fear him. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. If you have confessed your sins to God, he has forgiven you. Now you must forgive yourself.

Regarding your struggle to move on, it's clear that you're holding onto feelings for your ex. Be encouraged by Philippians 4:6-7, Have no anxiety at all, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.

It's concerning that you mention you've fallen for someone else, but haven't even met her. This could be a sign that you're trying to fill the void left by your ex with someone new, rather than healing and waiting on God's timing. Be patient, and trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight, Proverbs 3:5-6.

Remember that God's plan for you is good and that he wants to give you a hope and a future. Jeremiah 29:11 says, I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.

Lastly, we want to address the issue of your goddaughters and their mother. It's important to live in truth and honesty. Consider speaking to her openly about your struggles, and ask for her forgiveness for your past lies. She may understand that you are struggling.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, lifting up Callum. Lord, we ask for your healing touch on his heart and mind. Help him to forgive himself as you have forgiven him. Help him to let go of his past relationship and heal from the pain he's experiencing. Guide him in his new situation and bring clarity. We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus.

Callum, use this time to draw closer to God, to study His word, and to grow in your faith. Trust that He has a plan for you, and that He will bring the right godly woman into your life in His perfect timing.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're here with you, praying alongside you as you navigate through this tough time. It's clear that you're carrying a heavy burden, and we want you to know that you're not alone. We're lifting you up to the Lord, asking Him to comfort you and guide you.

First off, let's talk about forgiveness. You've mentioned that you've tried to forgive yourself, but it's just not clicking. Remember, forgiveness is not about minimizing what you've done, but about letting go of the guilt and shame that's been weighing you down. God has forgiven you, and now it's time for you to forgive yourself. It's okay to ask God for help with this - He's more than willing to help you take this step.

Now, about moving on. It's understandable that you're still holding onto feelings for your ex, but it's important to let go and allow God to heal your heart. Remember, God is the ultimate healer, and He wants to help you move forward. Trust in Him, and allow His peace to guard your heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).

We noticed that you've mentioned falling for someone else, but you haven't even met them yet. While it's okay to have feelings, it's important to ensure that these feelings are not a distraction from the healing process. Be patient, and trust that God has a plan for your love life. He knows what's best for you, and He'll bring the right person into your life at the right time.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to be honest with your goddaughters and their mother. Honesty is the foundation of any relationship, and it's important to live in truth. Consider speaking to them about your struggles, and ask for their forgiveness if you've lied to them in the past. They might understand more than you think.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to you today, lifting up ###. Lord, we ask for your healing touch on his heart and mind. Help him to forgive himself, just as you have forgiven him. Help him to let go of his past relationship and heal from the pain he's experiencing. Guide him in his new situation, and bring clarity to his path. We ask this all in the precious name of Jesus. Amen."

Keep trusting in God, and remember that He's got a great plan for your life. You're not alone in this journey. Keep seeking Him, and He'll guide your steps.

In Christ,
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[Stitcher]

I have prayed for this in the precious name of Jesus. Amen

 

[Dan T]

Papa, please grant this person Wisdom and Discernment, guide her into your abundant blessings and allow her to walk through this period with continual thanks and praise to you....in Jesus' name...amen!

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear brother, as you seek to move forward from your past relationship. We thank you for the privilege of praying on your behalf and are glad that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If you have felt a sense of release and freedom from your past relationship, we would love for you to share a praise report with us all. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also struggling to let go of past hurts.

If, however, you find that you are still struggling with the same issues, we want you to know that we are here for you. Please don't hesitate to post an update or a new request, allowing us to continue praying for you. We want you to know that you are not alone in your struggle. We are here to support and encourage you in any way we can.

In your original post, you mentioned the struggle of not being able to forgive yourself. Scripture tells us that if we confess our sins, Jesus is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. You have confessed your sins to the Lord and sought His forgiveness and healing. It is time to receive that forgiveness and walk in the freedom that Christ died to give you.

You also mentioned the fear of reaching out to a friend for advice because of past mistakes. We pray that the Lord will give you the courage to reach out and the wisdom to know who to reach out to. We pray that your friend will respond with love and understanding, and that your relationship with her will be strengthened as a result.

Lastly, you mentioned the struggle of feeling like you have fallen for someone new, but not knowing what to do. We pray that the Lord will guide your steps in this area. That He will make His will clear to you and give you the strength and courage to follow it. We pray that He will protect your heart and mind as you navigate these feelings and that He will bring the right person into your life at the right time.

We declare now in Jesus' name, all will be well. and His perfect purpose for your life is possible!. Please continue to seek Him and trust in His unfailing love for you. topriority is His will for you and He alone can bestow a joyous future. rest in His grace and mercy and His Comfort.