Tough Times
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We lift up your mother and this deeply painful situation before the Lord, knowing that His heart breaks for the brokenness in this marriage. The Word of God is clear that marriage is a sacred covenant before Him, and divorce is not His desire—yet He also sees the hardness of hearts and the sin that has entered this union. *"From the beginning it was not so,"* Jesus said in Matthew 19:8 (WEB), speaking of divorce, *"but I tell you that whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another, commits adultery; and he who marries her when she is divorced commits adultery."* While we do not know the full details of this marriage, we must first urge your mother—and all involved—to seek reconciliation if at all possible, through repentance, forgiveness, and the transforming power of Christ. Has she sought godly counseling or pastoral intervention? Has she prayed for her husband’s heart to be softened, or for her own heart to be examined before the Lord? Divorce should never be pursued lightly, for it brings deep wounding to all involved, including children, extended family, and the testimony of Christ in their lives.
Yet we also recognize that your mother is suffering under accusation, emotional abuse, and what sounds like a spirit of control and manipulation in this marriage. No spouse should endure false accusations, especially of infidelity, which can crush a person’s spirit. Proverbs 18:21 (WEB) warns, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* The words being spoken over her are not of God, and we rebuke this spirit of accusation and condemnation in Jesus’ name. We pray that your mother would find her identity and worth in Christ alone, for she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). If her husband is unrepentant in his sin—whether it be emotional abuse, hardness of heart, or other ungodly behaviors—she must seek wisdom from the Lord on how to respond biblically. 1 Corinthians 7:15 (WEB) says, *"Yet if the unbelieving departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* If he is a believer, she is called to pray for his repentance; if he is an unbeliever, she must still honor God in her responses, but separation may be necessary for her safety and well-being.
As for her desire for freedom and a home, we pray that the Lord would provide for her needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Yet we also caution her—and you—to seek His will above her own. Freedom from a difficult marriage does not guarantee peace; only surrender to Christ does. If divorce proceeds, it must be done with great sorrow, humility, and a heart that still trusts God’s sovereignty. We pray that she would not be led by bitterness or resentment, but by the Holy Spirit, who convicts and comforts. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for this marriage, for this wife and mother who is suffering under the weight of accusation, emotional pain, and a spirit of division. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask that You would move mightily in this situation. If there is any hope for reconciliation, we pray that You would soften both hearts—especially the husband’s—so that repentance, forgiveness, and restoration might take place. Break the spirit of accusation and control that has taken root, and replace it with Your Spirit of love, patience, and humility. Convict him of his sin, Lord, and bring him to his knees before You.
Yet, Father, we also see the pain and brokenness in this wife. Comfort her, Lord. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no accusation from man can separate her from Your love (Romans 8:38-39). Give her wisdom, Lord—should she stay and fight for this marriage with godly counsel? Should she separate for her own protection? Should she, in the sad event of unrepentance, proceed with divorce? Guide her steps, and let her not act out of fear, anger, or desperation, but out of faith in You.
Provide for her needs, Lord. If it is Your will for her to have a home of her own, open the doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Give her favor with those who can help, and let her trust in You rather than in her own understanding. Surround her with godly community—women of faith who can speak truth, pray with her, and hold her accountable to honor You in all things.
Most of all, Father, we pray that both she and her husband would encounter You in a fresh and powerful way. Draw them to Yourself, Lord Jesus. Let this trial drive them to their knees, not away from You. If they do not know You as Savior, save them! If they have strayed, restore them. Let this pain not be in vain, but let it be used for Your glory and their sanctification.
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
To you who have shared this request: We urge you to support your mother in prayer and in truth. Encourage her to seek biblical counseling, either through her church or a trusted Christian counselor. If she is not in a safe environment, help her find a place of refuge. Remind her that God sees her pain and that He is her Defender (Psalm 68:5). Also, examine your own heart—are you praying for her husband as well? It is easy to take sides in such situations, but we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean excusing sin, but it does mean trusting God to be the Just Judge.
If your mother is not a believer, or if her faith has grown cold, now is the time to share the gospel with her. True freedom is found only in Christ, who sets the captives free (Luke 4:18). Without Him, any "freedom" she finds will be temporary. But with Him, she can walk through this fire with hope, knowing that He is with her.
Yet we also recognize that your mother is suffering under accusation, emotional abuse, and what sounds like a spirit of control and manipulation in this marriage. No spouse should endure false accusations, especially of infidelity, which can crush a person’s spirit. Proverbs 18:21 (WEB) warns, *"Death and life are in the power of the tongue; those who love it will eat its fruit."* The words being spoken over her are not of God, and we rebuke this spirit of accusation and condemnation in Jesus’ name. We pray that your mother would find her identity and worth in Christ alone, for she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). If her husband is unrepentant in his sin—whether it be emotional abuse, hardness of heart, or other ungodly behaviors—she must seek wisdom from the Lord on how to respond biblically. 1 Corinthians 7:15 (WEB) says, *"Yet if the unbelieving departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace."* If he is a believer, she is called to pray for his repentance; if he is an unbeliever, she must still honor God in her responses, but separation may be necessary for her safety and well-being.
As for her desire for freedom and a home, we pray that the Lord would provide for her needs according to His riches in glory (Philippians 4:19). Yet we also caution her—and you—to seek His will above her own. Freedom from a difficult marriage does not guarantee peace; only surrender to Christ does. If divorce proceeds, it must be done with great sorrow, humility, and a heart that still trusts God’s sovereignty. We pray that she would not be led by bitterness or resentment, but by the Holy Spirit, who convicts and comforts. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for this marriage, for this wife and mother who is suffering under the weight of accusation, emotional pain, and a spirit of division. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask that You would move mightily in this situation. If there is any hope for reconciliation, we pray that You would soften both hearts—especially the husband’s—so that repentance, forgiveness, and restoration might take place. Break the spirit of accusation and control that has taken root, and replace it with Your Spirit of love, patience, and humility. Convict him of his sin, Lord, and bring him to his knees before You.
Yet, Father, we also see the pain and brokenness in this wife. Comfort her, Lord. Remind her that she is Your beloved daughter, redeemed by the blood of Jesus, and that no accusation from man can separate her from Your love (Romans 8:38-39). Give her wisdom, Lord—should she stay and fight for this marriage with godly counsel? Should she separate for her own protection? Should she, in the sad event of unrepentance, proceed with divorce? Guide her steps, and let her not act out of fear, anger, or desperation, but out of faith in You.
Provide for her needs, Lord. If it is Your will for her to have a home of her own, open the doors that no man can shut (Revelation 3:8). Give her favor with those who can help, and let her trust in You rather than in her own understanding. Surround her with godly community—women of faith who can speak truth, pray with her, and hold her accountable to honor You in all things.
Most of all, Father, we pray that both she and her husband would encounter You in a fresh and powerful way. Draw them to Yourself, Lord Jesus. Let this trial drive them to their knees, not away from You. If they do not know You as Savior, save them! If they have strayed, restore them. Let this pain not be in vain, but let it be used for Your glory and their sanctification.
We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Redeemer and Healer. Amen.
To you who have shared this request: We urge you to support your mother in prayer and in truth. Encourage her to seek biblical counseling, either through her church or a trusted Christian counselor. If she is not in a safe environment, help her find a place of refuge. Remind her that God sees her pain and that He is her Defender (Psalm 68:5). Also, examine your own heart—are you praying for her husband as well? It is easy to take sides in such situations, but we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44). This does not mean excusing sin, but it does mean trusting God to be the Just Judge.
If your mother is not a believer, or if her faith has grown cold, now is the time to share the gospel with her. True freedom is found only in Christ, who sets the captives free (Luke 4:18). Without Him, any "freedom" she finds will be temporary. But with Him, she can walk through this fire with hope, knowing that He is with her.
We're here for your mom, standing with her in prayer. It's tough, we know, feeling trapped and accused. But remember, she's not alone. God sees her, He cares, and He's right there with her. We're asking God to give her strength, to fill her with His love and peace. We're praying that her husband's heart would soften, that he'd see the pain he's causing and turn back to God. But most importantly, we're asking God to guide your mom. To give her wisdom, to show her the right path to take, and to give her the courage to follow it. We're also praying for a home for her, a place where she can find peace and safety. And we're asking God to use this situation, to draw both her and her husband closer to Him. We're here, praying with her, for her. Let's keep encouraging her, reminding her that God's got this, and that He loves her so much. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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