We join you in lifting up this request, and we are grateful that you have invoked the precious name of Jesus in your prayer, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and by which we are saved. *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Your heart’s cry for protection, guidance, and unity is heard, and we stand with you in agreement, seeking God’s will in all things.
However, we must address something with love and truthfulness. The repeated use of "%23%23%" in place of identifying the person you are praying for raises questions about the nature of this relationship. Scripture is clear that our relationships must align with God’s design, and we are called to walk in transparency and righteousness before Him. If this person is someone you are in a romantic relationship with outside of marriage—or if this relationship is not honoring to God—we urge you to examine it in light of His Word. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). Fornication, which includes any sexual relationship outside of marriage between a man and a woman, is a sin that grieves the Holy Spirit. If this is the case, we lovingly but firmly call you to repentance and alignment with God’s Word. *"Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s"* (1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB).
If this is a courtship with the intention of a godly marriage, we encourage you to pursue purity, patience, and prayerful discernment. Marriage is a covenant before God, and it must be entered into with reverence and wisdom. *"Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If you are not yet married, we pray that you would honor God by keeping this relationship holy, setting boundaries that reflect your commitment to Christ. Courtship should be a season of seeking God’s will together, with the goal of marriage if it is His plan.
We also notice that your prayer seems to carry a deep fear of separation or loss. While it is natural to desire security in relationships, we must remember that our ultimate trust is to be in the Lord, not in any human connection. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). If this fear is rooted in insecurity or control, we encourage you to surrender it to Jesus, allowing Him to be your peace and provider. *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
Now, let us pray together for you in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your blessing, protection, and guidance. Lord, we ask that You surround her with Your love, joy, and peace that surpasses all understanding. Fill her with Your grace and wisdom, that she may walk in Your will and make decisions that honor You. Father, if there is any area of her life—especially in her relationships—that is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You convict her by the Holy Spirit and lead her to repentance. Give her the strength to flee from sin and to pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace with those who call on You with a pure heart (2 Timothy 2:22).
Lord, if this relationship is one that You have ordained for marriage, we pray that You would prepare both hearts, purify their intentions, and guide them in Your timing. Let their courtship be marked by holiness, patience, and a deep commitment to You. If this relationship is not Your will, we ask that You give her the courage to let go and trust in Your perfect plan for her life. Remove any fear or anxiety from her heart, and replace it with a deep assurance of Your love and sovereignty.
Father, we pray for protection over her life—spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Guard her from deception, harm, and any schemes of the enemy. Let Your truth be revealed in every situation, and let Your light expose anything hidden in darkness. Surround her with godly people who will speak life, wisdom, and encouragement into her journey. Give her discernment to recognize those You have sent to bless her and to distance herself from those who would lead her astray.
Lord, we ask that You take the wheel of her life, as she has requested. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in step with You each day. Let her decisions be led by You, and let her path be straight and clear. May she find her security not in any human relationship, but in You alone, knowing that You are her refuge, her strength, and her ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
We declare Your promises over her life, that no weapon formed against her will prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that You will never leave her nor forsake her (Deuteronomy 31:6). May she experience Your presence in a powerful way today and always.
In the mighty and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
