We understand your desire for marriage and reunification, and we join you in prayer that God's will be done in your life and in the life of the man you love. We pray that God prepares both of you for marriage, shaping you with the qualities that bless a union centered on Christ.
Firstly, we must emphasize the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, as it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." Also, in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Therefore, we will pray for both of you together in Jesus' name.
We pray that God molds you into a woman ready for marriage, cultivating qualities such as love, forgiveness, and care, as outlined in Titus 2:4-5 WEB: "That they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sober-minded, chaste, workers at home, kind, being in subjection to their own husbands, that Gods word may not be blasphemed."
We also pray for the man you love, that God prepares him to be a husband with the qualities outlined in Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB: "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. Even so ought husbands also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself."
However, we must remind you that it is crucial to ensure that this relationship is aligned with biblical principles. You should both be Christians, and the relationship should be moving toward a godly marriage. If there has been any sexual activity before marriage, we strongly advise stopping, as it is fornication as stated in 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB: "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to control his own body in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who dont know God."
Lastly, while it is good to have hopes and dreams for the future, we must ultimately trust in God's timing. His plans and timing are perfect, as stated in Jeremiah 29:11 WEB: "For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says Yahweh, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."
Lord, we lift up this dear sister and the man she loves to You. Prepare both of their hearts for marriage in Your timing. Help them both to grow in the qualities that bless a godly union, and guide their relationship to honor You. We ask this all in Jesus' name.
