Time to face my fears

Goddess

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I'm the one people rely on, the one who keeps going no matter how heavy things get. I've learned to be strong so well that I forget I'm allowed to rest. The problem isn't that I'm weak; it's that I rarely ask for support. Letting others help me won't make me less capable; it will make me human.
 
We hear the weight of your words, dear brother or sister, and we stand with you before the throne of grace, lifting up your heart in prayer. It is a noble thing to be a strong pillar for others, to carry burdens with steadfast endurance, and to press forward even when the load feels unbearable. Yet we must remember that even the strongest among us are still human, still in need of the rest, support, and love that our Heavenly Father so freely offers.

The Lord does not call us to carry our burdens alone. In Matthew 11:28-30, Jesus says, *"Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light."* Even the Savior, who carried the weight of the world’s sins, invites us to lay our burdens at His feet. If He, the perfect Son of God, did not walk this earth in isolation, how much more should we, as imperfect vessels, allow ourselves to be upheld by His strength and the love of those around us?

Your strength is not diminished by vulnerability; rather, it is refined and made complete in Christ. The apostle Paul, a man who endured unimaginable hardships, wrote in 2 Corinthians 12:9-10, *"He has said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.' Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. Therefore I take pleasure in weaknesses, in injuries, in necessities, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then am I strong."* Your willingness to acknowledge your need for rest and support is not a sign of failure—it is an act of faith, trusting that God’s power is made perfect in your weakness.

We must also address the lie that asking for help makes you less capable. This is a deception from the enemy, who seeks to isolate you and keep you from the community and fellowship that God designed for His children. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 reminds us, *"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their labor. For if they fall, the one will lift up his fellow; but woe to him who is alone when he falls, and doesn’t have another to lift him up."* You were never meant to walk this journey alone. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and in doing so, we fulfill the law of Christ.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of gratitude for this dear one who has shown such strength and resilience in the face of life’s challenges. Lord, we ask that You would meet them in their weariness and remind them that they do not have to carry their burdens alone. Teach them, Father, to lean on You and to trust in the support of their brothers and sisters in Christ. Soften their heart to receive help, and give them the humility to ask for it when needed.

Lord, we rebuke the spirit of isolation and independence that seeks to keep them from the rest and community You have provided. Remind them that Your strength is made perfect in their weakness, and that in their vulnerability, they reflect the heart of Christ. Surround them with godly friends and mentors who will walk alongside them, lifting them up when they stumble and encouraging them when they grow weary.

Father, we pray for rest—true rest that can only be found in You. Help them to lay down the weight of their responsibilities at Your feet, trusting that You are more than capable of sustaining them. Renew their strength, Lord, and fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. May they find comfort in Your presence and joy in the fellowship of Your people.

We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the One who bore our burdens so that we might find rest in Him. Amen.

Dear one, we encourage you to take a step of faith today. Reach out to a trusted friend, pastor, or fellow believer and share your struggle. Allow them to pray with you, encourage you, and walk with you. Remember, it is not a sign of weakness to ask for help—it is a sign of wisdom and humility. You are loved, you are valued, and you are not alone. The Lord is with you, and so are we.
 
We hear your heart, dear one, and we're right here with you. It's tough being the strong one all the time, isn't it? It's like you're carrying the world on your shoulders, and it can feel so heavy. But remember, even the tallest trees need to bend in the wind, and even the strongest rivers need to rest in the sea.

You know, it's okay to not be okay all the time. In fact, it's more than okay - it's human. And that's exactly why God gave us each other. He didn't intend for us to go through life alone, carrying our burdens by ourselves. He wants us to lean on Him, and on each other.

In the Gospel of Matthew, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." He didn't say, "Come to me when you've got it all together." He said, "Come to me as you are." Because that's where His strength is made perfect - in our weakness.

So, let's pray for you, shall we? Father, we come before You today, asking that You would meet our friend in their weariness. Remind them, Lord, that they don't have to carry their burdens alone. Help them to trust in You, and in the support of their brothers and sisters in Christ. Give them the humility to ask for help when they need it, and the grace to receive it.

We pray for rest, Lord. True rest that can only be found in You. Help them to lay down their burdens at Your feet, trusting that You are more than capable of sustaining them. Renew their strength, Lord, and fill them with Your peace. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

And hey, we're here for you too. If you ever need someone to talk to, or someone to pray with, just say the word. You're not alone in this. We're in this together, okay? You're loved, you're valued, and you're never alone. The Lord is with you, and so are we.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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