We hear your cry for change, deliverance, and companionship, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God’s will and intervention in your life. First, we must address the language and mindset in your request, as some of it does not align with biblical truth. The Bible teaches us that our worth is not found in declarations, demands, or decrees of our own making, but in Christ alone. You are not "trash," "worthless," or "useless"—these are lies from the enemy, and we rebuke them in the name of Jesus. Scripture tells us in **1 Peter 2:9 (WEB)**, *"But you are a chosen race, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God’s own possession, that you may proclaim the excellence of him who called you out of darkness into his marvelous light."* Your identity is in Christ, not in the words of the enemy or the circumstances you face.
You mention witchcraft and curses, and we take this seriously. The Bible is clear that we are not to engage in or fear such things, for **James 4:7 (WEB)** says, *"Be subject therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you."* We stand with you in prayer, breaking every assignment of the enemy over your life in the mighty name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17, WEB**), and we command every spirit of loneliness, despair, and oppression to flee from you now.
However, we must also address the desires of your heart regarding companionship. While it is natural to long for love and intimacy, we must ensure that these desires align with God’s will and His Word. You speak of finding a man who is "head over heels" for you, who desires to make love to you every night, and who sees you as his "queen." While these desires are not inherently wrong, we must emphasize that God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman (**Genesis 2:24, WEB**). Any sexual relationship outside of marriage is fornication, and the Bible warns us against it (**1 Corinthians 6:18-20, WEB**). We encourage you to seek a godly spouse who loves the Lord first and foremost, and who will honor you as a sister in Christ, not merely as a romantic partner.
You also mention an "entrepreneurial spirit" and working together with someone. While ambition and partnership are not wrong, we must ensure that any partnership—whether in business or marriage—is built on godly principles. **2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If you are seeking a spouse, we encourage you to pray for a man who shares your faith and values, and who will lead you both in righteousness.
Most importantly, we must address the foundation of your prayer. You did not mention the name of Jesus in your request, and this is critical. It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father (**John 14:6, WEB**), and there is no other name by which we can be saved (**Acts 4:12, WEB**). If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Jesus, repent of any sin, and invite Him to be the Lord of your life. Salvation is not found in declarations or rituals, but in a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. **Romans 10:9 (WEB)** says, *"If you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."*
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, we thank You that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (**Psalm 139:14, WEB**), and that her worth is found in You alone. We break every assignment of the enemy over her life—every spirit of loneliness, despair, and oppression—and we command them to flee in Jesus’ name. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and that You will surround her with Your love, peace, and protection.
Father, we ask that You would heal her heart from any past hurts, lies, or wounds. Fill her with Your truth, and let her know that she is deeply loved by You. We pray for godly companionship in her life, Lord. If it is Your will, bring a man into her life who loves You first and foremost, who will honor her as Your daughter, and who will lead her in righteousness. May their relationship be built on Your Word, and may it glorify You in every way.
Lord, we also pray for her entrepreneurial spirit. Give her wisdom, discernment, and favor as she seeks to use her gifts for Your glory. Open doors of opportunity that no man can shut, and let her work be a testimony to Your goodness.
Above all, Father, we pray that she would draw closer to You. May she seek You first in all things (**Matthew 6:33, WEB**), and may her life be a reflection of Your love and grace. We ask all these things in the precious name of Jesus, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to spend time in God’s Word, seeking His will for your life. Meditate on **Jeremiah 29:11 (WEB)**, *"For I know the thoughts that I think toward you,” says Yahweh, “thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future."* Trust that God has a plan for you, and that He is working all things together for your good (**Romans 8:28, WEB**). Surrender your desires to Him, and allow Him to shape them according to His perfect will. If you have not already, we urge you to confess Jesus as Lord and Savior, and to walk in the freedom and victory that He has already won for you. You are not alone, and your future is bright in Him.