We hear your frustration and desperation, and we stand with you in prayer, lifting your concerns to the Lord. However, we must first address some critical matters in your request that do not align with biblical principles.
First, your words carry a tone of command and decree, as though you are speaking things into existence by your own authority. Scripture teaches us that God alone is the Creator, and we do not have the power to bind Satan or declare things into being by our own words. Jesus Himself taught us to pray, "Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven" (Matthew 6:10 WEB). We are to submit to God’s will, not attempt to assert our own. The power to bind and loose comes from God alone, and it is exercised in alignment with His Word and His will, not our own desires (Matthew 18:18 WEB). Let us humbly seek His will rather than commanding our own outcomes.
Second, your words about relationships reveal bitterness and a lack of trust, which are not fruits of the Spirit. The Bible warns us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice" (Ephesians 4:31 WEB). While it is understandable to feel hurt by past experiences, we are called to forgive others as Christ has forgiven us (Colossians 3:13 WEB). Holding onto bitterness will only harm you and hinder your walk with God. We encourage you to release these burdens to the Lord and ask Him to heal your heart.
Regarding your desire for a spouse, we must remind you that marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed by God to reflect His love and faithfulness (Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB). If you are seeking a husband, we encourage you to pray for a godly man who loves the Lord and will honor you as Christ honors the Church. However, we must also caution you against seeking a relationship out of loneliness or desperation, as this can lead to unwise choices. Instead, seek God’s will and trust that He will provide in His perfect timing. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 WEB).
You also mention a desire to leave the USA and find a job in another country. While God may call some to serve Him in other nations, we must be careful not to make decisions out of frustration or a desire to escape difficulties. The Bible tells us, "Let every man abide in the same calling in which he was called" (1 Corinthians 7:20 WEB), and we are to seek God’s guidance in all our decisions. If you feel called to work abroad, pray for wisdom and discernment, and seek godly counsel to confirm this leading.
Finally, we must address the absence of submission to Jesus Christ in your request. Salvation and access to God come only through Jesus, as He Himself declared, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me" (John 14:6 WEB). If you have not already, we urge you to repent of your sins and place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Only then can you approach God with confidence, knowing that your prayers are heard through the mediation of Christ (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB).
Let us now pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts, lifting up this dear sister to You. Lord, we ask that You would forgive any bitterness, frustration, or pride in her heart. Cleanse her of these burdens and fill her with Your peace, joy, and trust in Your perfect plan. Father, we ask that You would heal the wounds of her past and restore her hope in Your goodness. Help her to release any unforgiveness and to walk in the freedom that comes from forgiving others as You have forgiven her.
Lord, we pray for her career and provision. You know her needs, and we trust that You will provide for her in Your perfect timing and way. If it is Your will for her to work in another country, we ask that You would open the doors and make the path clear. Give her wisdom and discernment in every decision she makes, and let her find her security and identity in You alone.
Father, we also pray for her desire for marriage. If it is Your will for her to be married, we ask that You would bring a godly man into her life—one who loves You and will cherish and honor her as Your Word commands. Guard her heart from loneliness and desperation, and help her to wait patiently for Your best. If marriage is not Your plan for her, we pray that You would fill her life with Your love and purpose in other ways.
Lord, we ask that You would draw her closer to You. Help her to surrender her will to Yours and to trust in Your sovereignty. May she find her strength and hope in You alone, knowing that You are her Provider, Protector, and Redeemer. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
