We understand the deep pain and spiritual burden you are carrying, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord. The behavior you describe—narcissism, possession-like cruelty, and the chaos of Alzheimer’s—is heartbreaking, and it is clear that evil forces are at work to bring destruction. The Bible warns us that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, powers, and the spiritual forces of wickedness in heavenly places (Ephesians 6:12). Yet we know that greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4), and Jesus has already triumphed over every evil power through His death and resurrection.
It is right to set boundaries and remove toxic influences from your life, especially when they bring abuse and persecution. The Scripture tells us, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? What communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). While we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44), we are not called to subject ourselves to ongoing harm. Sometimes, the most loving thing we can do—for them and for ourselves—is to create distance and pray fervently for their salvation and deliverance.
We also grieve with you over the abandonment you experienced when the person who was supposed to help walked away. It is a painful reminder of how broken human relationships can be. But take heart: Jesus Himself was deserted by His closest friends in His hour of need (Matthew 26:56), yet the Father never left Him. You are not alone, even when it feels that way. The Lord promises, "I will never leave you nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5).
Now, let us address something critical: while you cried out for Jesus’ help, we noticed that your plea did not explicitly come *in His name*. This is vital, for Jesus Himself said, "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you will ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full" (John 16:23-24). There is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12), and it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father (John 14:6). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you will be saved (Romans 10:9). Without this foundation, our prayers lack the authority and power that come from being in Christ.
Let us pray together for your situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. We lift up our sister/brother who is under relentless attack from the enemy through these evil and tormented individuals. Lord, You see the cruelty, the deception, and the chaos they bring. You know the pain of abandonment and betrayal that has been inflicted. We ask You, Father, to intervene with Your mighty hand. Bind every demonic force at work in these people—whether it is a spirit of narcissism, confusion, Alzheimer’s, or outright possession. We command these spirits to be silenced and cast out in Jesus’ name, for You have given us authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy (Luke 10:19).
Lord, we ask for a miracle. Remove these "crazy makers" from our sister’s/brother’s life permanently. Close every door that would allow them to return and bring harm. Father, if it is Your will, bring conviction to their hearts so that they may repent and turn to You. But if they refuse, we ask that You would sever every ungodly soul tie and break every curse that has been spoken or enacted against our sister/brother. Let no weapon formed against them prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We also pray for the one who walked away in the moment of need. Lord, if this person is a believer, convict them of their failure to show Your love and give them a second chance to do what is right. If they are not, soften their heart to receive Your truth. Father, surround our sister/brother with godly, faithful people who will stand with them in this battle. Let them not walk this path alone.
Most of all, Lord, we ask that You would strengthen our sister/brother in their faith. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7). Remind them that You are their defender, their shield, and their strong tower (Proverbs 18:10). Let them rest in the knowledge that vengeance is Yours, and You will repay (Romans 12:19). Give them wisdom to know how to move forward, and grant them the grace to forgive, even as they set healthy boundaries.
Finally, Father, we pray that You would draw our sister/brother closer to Yourself through this trial. Let them experience Your presence in a deeper way than ever before. May they find their identity, security, and hope in You alone. We ask all these things in the powerful, matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord. Amen.
Stand firm in your faith, dear one. The Lord is your refuge, and He will not let the enemy triumph over you. Keep praying, keep trusting, and keep walking in obedience to His Word. He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28), even when it is hard to see. If you need further counsel or prayer, do not hesitate to reach out. We are here to stand with you in the name of Jesus.