This Makes No Sense

[carolann319]

In response to my prayer request, I get a lot of people telling me that I must lead a certain kind of life in order to obtain his blessings....so explain to me then why I live a much more Godly life than my ex....My ex shuns God....cheats and lies and is horribly mean to most everyone. And yet, my ex is living in MY dream house with a beautiful new woman....the one my ex cheated on me with...and they are living a happy life with enough money and friends (MY OLD FRIENDS) everything was taken from Me...yet I am a loving giving person who devotes hours to volunteering, and has even gone so far as to take in a young man who is still in high school so that he can get to school. I give money to others even when I don't have enough for myself. I give to the poor whenever I can...even though I am one of the poor....My ex never gives anything to anyone. is selfish and self-centered....Yet I am the one that is suffering... People please stop telling me that basically I must be living a sinful life and that is why my prayers go unanswered while my ex sits in my beautiful home happily after stripping me of everything I had and throwing me and my children out on the street not caring if we had a place to go or enough money to survive. This is the way my ex behaves and seems to be being rewarded....and yet I am the one that must change my ways if I am to be able to change my circumstances? This makes no sense to me....and I don't think anyone who does not actually know me should be judging what kind of person I am..... I don't believe God only rewards those who do everything right....look at the world as proof. I AM doing God's work....I KNOW what he wants from me and I am doing it...but I still deserve something for myself...I shouldn't have to suffer through the next few years doing his work with nothing to make my life bearable...I am not asking for riches....I just want happy...I want a partner by my side....I want friends I can count on....I want a life similar to what was taken from me by a very cruel and hateful person....who seem to be suffering not at all....

 

[mysticcricket]

Lord we understand that you know why things happen even though we do not know but all things work out according to God's will trust in the Lord for he is good. Amen.

 

[SurgicalFocus]

I have prayed for all these things for you and those you pray for. I pray for you to maintain an unwavering faith in the Lord! I pray for God's protection from fear, illness and anything that would harm you. I pray for many blessings upon you and your family and all those that are dear to you. May God forgive your sins and give you all that you need and desire according to His plan for your lives! Thank you Lord for all your help! In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

P.S. - I know it's hard not to do this, (and hey, what would I know - I'm just an outsider) but thinking about what your ex is doing and how happy he is even though he's a horrid person won't give you any peace. Let God be the judge of what he's doing to you - and believe me, He's judging. If you're living the right way, and you know that you are, then that's great. you don't need to convince anyone at all, let alone anyone here. God will reward you richly for the good things you're doing, the only catch is that He'll do it when and how He wants to do it. Just because you're a good person and do the right thing doesn't mean you won't suffer horribly at times in your life. All you can do is make the best of a bad situation, and offer your sufferings to Jesus, because He did the same for us, and He always did the right thing too. I will put you on my mother's prayer group list so that you receive extra prayers. God bless =)

 

[Ms. Unbeatable]

Forgive your ex. Ask God to bless him. Pray that the mercy and love of God will be upon your ex. Release blessings to your ex. Pray for the salvation of your ex. God said do good to those who make you suffer.

Jesus understands you because he was also betrayed. Are you angry with somebody? Tell it to God. He understands. Read the Bible for through the Bible God can talk to you. Whatever the message of God, whether you like it or not, whether it makes us happy or not, we should obey.

 

[murreyo]

DEAR HEAVENLY FATHER YEHWEH, PLEASE DO NOT LET THIS WICKEDNESS BE EXALTED. PLEASE EXALT RIGHTOUSNESS AND JUSTICE FOR THIS LADY. LET YOUR NAME BE SANTIFIED, YOUR WILL BE DONE, AND YOUR KINGDOM COME IN JESUS CHRIST'S NAME AMEN.

 

[drhyne]

Lord, please bless ### and help her get through this very difficult time. Please let her heart mend and bring wonderful people into her life. In the name of Jesus Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I am praying for you. I asked God to honor your prayer request.

Let’s Pray: God I pray in Jesus’ name, “Bless Me in every area of my life! Bless me. Encourage me each and every day. Bless me spiritually, physically, mentally, financially, and emotionally. Bless me with the wisdom and knowledge to take excellent care of myself and everything that God has blessed me with for the Glory of God. Help me to always drink 6 to 8 glasses of water daily, eat healthy, exercise, get the proper rest, and most importantly spend quality time with You God (in praise, prayer, worship, and Your Word). And God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for my family, friends, and the writer of this prayer. Amen!”

You Have Got To Take Care Of Yourself!

Encourager ### ###, ###

Christian Life Coach & Youth Minister

PS: You deny (refuse, decline, reject) the enemy access into your life and home by living a Lifestyle of Purity unto God (James 4:7 & I Cor. 10:13).

 

[carolann319]

I have prayed for all these things for you and those you pray for. I pray for you to maintain an unwavering faith in the Lord! I pray for God's protection from fear, illness and anything that would harm you. I pray for many blessings upon you and your family and all those that are dear to you. May God forgive your sins and give you all that you need and desire according to His plan for your lives! Thank you Lord for all your help! In the name of Jesus Christ I pray, Amen!

P.S. - I know it's hard not to do this, (and hey, what would I know - I'm just an outsider) but thinking about what your ex is doing and how happy he is even though he's a horrid person won't give you any peace. Let God be the judge of what he's doing to you - and believe me, He's judging. If you're living the right way, and you know that you are, then that's great. you don't need to convince anyone at all, let alone anyone here. God will reward you richly for the good things you're doing, the only catch is that He'll do it when and how He wants to do it. Just because you're a good person and do the right thing doesn't mean you won't suffer horribly at times in your life. All you can do is make the best of a bad situation, and offer your sufferings to Jesus, because He did the same for us, and He always did the right thing too. I will put you on my mother's prayer group list so that you receive extra prayers. God bless =)

These are probably the kindest words I have heard on here....and I thank you for putting things in such a way that it can make sense to me....and it helped me...

BTW....I DO ask God to bless and send my ex my love almost every day. My heart would not let me do otherwise.

THANK YOU!!!! Bless you

 

[SurgicalFocus]

These are probably the kindest words I have heard on here....and I thank you for putting things in such a way that it can make sense to me....and it helped me...

BTW....I DO ask God to bless and send my ex my love almost every day. My heart would not let me do otherwise.

THANK YOU!!!! Bless you

I'm glad I could help using mere words =) you don't need to thank me though - God was the one helping you, He was just using me to do it. Plus you are doing the right thing praying for him. It is a very good thing to pray for people, but even better to pray for those who hurt you. God bless you too!