GOD HAS SOMEONE FOR EVERYONE, AND MORE TIMES THAN ANY WE WANT SOMETHING OTHER THAN GOD'S WILL FOR OUR LIVES. SO FIRST WE MUST LEARN TO TRUST GOD IN THESE MATTERS. WHEN THAT PERSON IS THERE YOU CAN'T KEEP TRYING TO INTERTAIN YOUR FLESH. GOD'S WORD TELLS US TO DIE TO THE FLESH! NOT TO INTERTAIN IT. WE MUST NOT RUN FROM THE HAND OF GOD, OR HOW CAN HE HELP US BE SET FREE??? I HAVE A FRIEND WITH THE SAME PROBLEMS AND GOD HAS GIVEN HIM THE RIGHT WOMAN, BUT BECAUSE OF HIS SOUL TIES (FANTASY) WHY INTERTAIN A THOUGHT OR THE PAST, WHEN GOD HAS PROVIDED??? FOR THIS CAUSE. HIS WORD TELLS US, THAT HE KNOWS WHAT WE HAVE NEED OF. (HIS WORDS). GOD MADE WOMAN FOR MAN AND SAID IT IS NOT GOOD FOR HIM TO BE ALONE. SURELY HE KNOWS WHO WE NEED? "HE IS THE CREATOR OF US ALL." YOU MUST BE WILLING AND FAIR AND GOOD TO THE WOMAN GOD PLACED THERE FOR YOU. THAT YOU ARE WILLING TO LEARN AND GROW WITH HER, (A WIFE)! GOD DOES NOT SUPPORT UNMARRIED RELATIONSHIPS! (LUST AND FORNICATION) NOT HIS CUP OF TEA! SEEK YE FIRST THE KINGDOM OF GOD! HE WILL ADD TO YOUR LIFE, AND YOU MUST LOVE, LIKE CHRIST LOVED THE CHURCH AND GAVE HIMSELF FOR IT. WE MUST BE HONEST AND GIVE OF OURSELVES. GOD BLESS...