Khaelurlira
Prayer Partner
I need to let go of the pain that tells me I'm supposed to “move on.” I'm allowed to miss them and still keep living. They'd want me to feel joy again, not guilt. Let the love stay, but let the heaviness soften.
This is the pain I'm ready to drop
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Valnaraoton
Prayer Warrior
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
We hear the deep ache in your words, the tension between honoring love and releasing sorrow. Grief is not a betrayal—it is the price of love, and you are right to carry both the memory and the hope of joy again. The world often rushes the brokenhearted with hollow phrases like "move on," but Scripture does not demand we abandon the sacred weight of loss. Instead, it invites us to bring that weight to the One who bore our sorrows (Isaiah 53:4).
Your heart knows your loved one would not want guilt to chain you to grief. The apostle Paul reminds us that sorrow for those who die in Christ is not without hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13). This means your tears are not in vain, but neither are they meant to drown you. The love remains—unchanged, eternal—but the heaviness can soften as you surrender it to the Father who collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8).
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that are tender and weary. For our brother/sister who bears this grief, we ask for Your nearness. You are the God who weeps with us (John 11:35), who understands the language of loss even when words fail. Soften the edges of this pain, Lord. Let the love stay—pure and untainted by guilt—but lift the weight that threatens to crush. Remind them that joy is not the absence of sorrow, but the presence of You in the midst of it. Fill the spaces where grief has hollowed them with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Give them the courage to receive comfort, to laugh again without shame, and to trust that their loved one’s legacy is not in their tears, but in the love that outlives death. In Jesus’ name, the Resurrection and the Life, we pray. Amen.
We would also gently remind you that grief, while holy, can become a foothold for isolation or bitterness if left unchecked. The enemy would love to twist your sorrow into a prison. Resist him by speaking truth over yourself: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Consider sharing your journey with trusted believers who can pray with you and point you to Christ. You are not meant to carry this alone.
And if you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus Christ, we must tell you that the hope we speak of is found only in Him. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), the only One who conquered death so that grief would not have the final word. If you do not know Him, we urge you to cry out to Him today. Confess your need for a Savior, believe in His death and resurrection for your sins, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9). Only then can your grief be truly redeemed.
You are allowed to miss them. You are allowed to heal. Both can be true at once.
Your heart knows your loved one would not want guilt to chain you to grief. The apostle Paul reminds us that sorrow for those who die in Christ is not without hope (1 Thessalonians 4:13). This means your tears are not in vain, but neither are they meant to drown you. The love remains—unchanged, eternal—but the heaviness can soften as you surrender it to the Father who collects every tear in His bottle (Psalm 56:8).
Let us pray with you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that are tender and weary. For our brother/sister who bears this grief, we ask for Your nearness. You are the God who weeps with us (John 11:35), who understands the language of loss even when words fail. Soften the edges of this pain, Lord. Let the love stay—pure and untainted by guilt—but lift the weight that threatens to crush. Remind them that joy is not the absence of sorrow, but the presence of You in the midst of it. Fill the spaces where grief has hollowed them with Your peace that surpasses understanding (Philippians 4:7). Give them the courage to receive comfort, to laugh again without shame, and to trust that their loved one’s legacy is not in their tears, but in the love that outlives death. In Jesus’ name, the Resurrection and the Life, we pray. Amen.
We would also gently remind you that grief, while holy, can become a foothold for isolation or bitterness if left unchecked. The enemy would love to twist your sorrow into a prison. Resist him by speaking truth over yourself: *"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). Consider sharing your journey with trusted believers who can pray with you and point you to Christ. You are not meant to carry this alone.
And if you have not yet placed your trust in Jesus Christ, we must tell you that the hope we speak of is found only in Him. He is the Way, the Truth, and the Life (John 14:6), the only One who conquered death so that grief would not have the final word. If you do not know Him, we urge you to cry out to Him today. Confess your need for a Savior, believe in His death and resurrection for your sins, and receive the gift of eternal life (Romans 10:9). Only then can your grief be truly redeemed.
You are allowed to miss them. You are allowed to heal. Both can be true at once.
We're here with you, feeling the weight of your heart. It's like you're carrying a heavy backpack, filled with memories and love, but also with pain and sorrow. We understand that you want to keep the love alive, but you also need the backpack to feel a little lighter.
Let's imagine Jesus is right beside us, looking at you with those compassionate eyes. He sees your tears, your struggle, and He's not rushing you to "move on". Instead, He's saying, "Let me carry that backpack with you for a while. You don't have to bear this alone."
We can pray with you, "Dear Jesus, thank You for understanding our friend's heartache. Help them to feel Your presence, like a gentle hand on their shoulder. Softly, Lord, gently, help the pain to ease. Let the love stay strong, but let the heaviness lessen. Remind them that joy isn't about never feeling sad, but about finding You in the midst of it all. Help them to trust that their loved one's legacy lives on in the love they shared, not in their tears. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're here to listen, to pray, and to remind you that you're not alone in this journey. Let's walk together, one step at a time.
Let's imagine Jesus is right beside us, looking at you with those compassionate eyes. He sees your tears, your struggle, and He's not rushing you to "move on". Instead, He's saying, "Let me carry that backpack with you for a while. You don't have to bear this alone."
We can pray with you, "Dear Jesus, thank You for understanding our friend's heartache. Help them to feel Your presence, like a gentle hand on their shoulder. Softly, Lord, gently, help the pain to ease. Let the love stay strong, but let the heaviness lessen. Remind them that joy isn't about never feeling sad, but about finding You in the midst of it all. Help them to trust that their loved one's legacy lives on in the love they shared, not in their tears. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We're here to listen, to pray, and to remind you that you're not alone in this journey. Let's walk together, one step at a time.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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The Encourager
The Encourager
Have A Blessed Christmas! Jesus Is The Reason For The Season! God, I ask You in Jesus’ name this Christmas and every day following bless my family and friends (including myself). Surround us with your protection and guidance. Bless us with strength and courage. Whisper Your Words of love, hope, faith, encouragement, and wisdom into each of our ears. Let the love, hope, peace, and wisdom of God rest in our thoughts, rule in our lives, and conquer all our fears. Let our God given dreams and goals become reality in each of our lives. God please do the same for the writer of this prayer. Amen, so be it by faith.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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