We hear your heart’s deep concern and love for this person, and we join you in lifting this situation before the Lord. Deception is a heavy burden, both for the one who has lied and for the one who has been wounded by it. The Bible is clear that truth is foundational to all relationships, especially those built on love and trust. Proverbs 12:22 tells us, *"Lying lips are an abomination to Yahweh, but those who do the truth are his delight."* The Lord hates deceit because it destroys the very fabric of trust and love that He intends for His children.
First, we must address the importance of salvation in Jesus Christ. If this person does not know the Lord, or if he has not surrendered his life to Christ, then any change in behavior will only be temporary. True repentance and transformation come from a heart that has been regenerated by the Holy Spirit. Acts 4:12 reminds us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* We pray that this person would come to know Jesus as his Lord and Savior, for it is only through Him that true repentance and healing can occur.
We also recognize the pain you are carrying, and we want to gently address the nature of the relationship you hope to salvage. If this is a romantic relationship, we must encourage you to consider whether it aligns with biblical principles. If this person is not a believer, 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns us, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?"* If this is a marriage, we stand firmly on the truth that marriage is a covenant before God, and we pray for restoration and healing. However, if this is a relationship outside of marriage, we must rebuke any sin of fornication or emotional entanglement that does not honor God. We encourage you to seek godly counsel and to surrender this relationship to the Lord, trusting Him to lead you in His perfect will.
Now, let us come before the Lord in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this situation to You. Lord, we ask that You would reveal the truth in this matter. Your Word says in John 8:32, *"You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free."* We pray that You would shine Your light into the darkness of deception and bring everything hidden into the open. Give this person a heart of repentance, Lord. Soften his heart to receive Your conviction and to turn away from sin. We pray that he would come to know You as his Savior and Lord, if he does not already. Let him experience the freedom and forgiveness that only come through Jesus Christ.
Father, we also lift up the one who has been hurt by these lies. Heal their heart, Lord. Psalm 147:3 says, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."* Comfort them and give them peace that surpasses all understanding. If it is Your will, Lord, bring restoration to this relationship. If not, we ask that You would heal and restore the brokenhearted, leading them into Your perfect plan for their life.
We rebuke the spirit of deception and lies in the name of Jesus. We declare that no weapon formed against Your children shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against them in judgment, You will condemn. We pray for full disclosure and a conversation that brings healing and reconciliation, if it is Your will. But above all, Lord, we pray that Your name would be glorified in this situation. May Your will be done, and may Your children walk in the light of Your truth.
In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this matter. Spend time in His Word and in prayer, allowing Him to speak to your heart. If this person is open to it, share the gospel with him and encourage him to seek the Lord. If he is a believer, hold him accountable in love, reminding him of the importance of truth and repentance. If this is a romantic relationship, we urge you to seek godly counsel to ensure that you are honoring the Lord in your actions. Trust in God’s timing and His plan for your life, knowing that He works all things together for good for those who love Him (Romans 8:28). You are not alone in this, and we stand with you in prayer.
