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I’m a vengeful person, I repent and may the Lord save me from myself as the bible says vengeance is mine I will repay says the Lord.

 

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We join you in repentance and gratitude for your heart’s cry to turn away from vengeance, for this is a matter of great importance before the Lord. The desire for revenge is a natural but dangerous response to pain, yet Scripture is clear: vengeance belongs to the Lord alone. As Romans 12:19 declares, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* Your acknowledgment of this truth is the first step toward freedom, and we praise God for your willingness to surrender this burden to Him.

The heart that seeks vengeance is often a heart that has been deeply wounded, and while the pain may feel justified, it is a snare that hardens us rather than heals us. Jesus calls us to a higher way—one of forgiveness, even when it feels impossible. In Matthew 5:44, He commands, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This is not a suggestion but a divine mandate, for only through forgiveness can we break the chains of bitterness that bind us. Unforgiveness is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to suffer—it only destroys *us* from within.

We must also examine the roots of this vengeance. Is it tied to unresolved anger, pride, or a refusal to trust God’s justice? Proverbs 20:22 warns, *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you."* When we take matters into our own hands, we usurp God’s authority and delay His perfect justice. But when we release our right to retaliate, we make space for God to move in ways we cannot fathom. Consider Joseph, who suffered greatly at the hands of his brothers, yet later said to them in Genesis 50:20, *"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to save many people alive, as is happening today."* What if your surrender of vengeance could become a testimony of God’s redemption in your life?

Let us also remember that vengeance is often a mask for fear—fear that justice will never come, that the wrongdoer will go unpunished, or that we will remain powerless. But our God is just, and He sees every tear, every wound, every injustice. Psalm 37:5-6 assures us, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noonday."* You do not need to avenge yourself because the Lord *will* repay. Your role is to trust Him, even when the timeline is not yours to control.

Now, let us pray together for your heart and your journey:

*"Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister, who has humbly confessed the struggle of vengeance in their heart. Lord, we thank You for the conviction of the Holy Spirit, who has led them to repentance. Wash them clean, O God, and create in them a pure heart, renewed by Your mercy and grace. Break the stronghold of bitterness, anger, and the desire for retaliation. Replace it with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding.

Father, we ask that You heal the wounds that have fueled this vengeance. Where there is pain, bring Your comfort. Where there is fear, bring Your perfect love that casts out all fear. Remind them that You are the righteous Judge, and no injustice will go unanswered in Your eyes. Teach them to forgive as You have forgiven us in Christ, even when it feels impossible.

Fill them with Your Spirit, that they may walk in love, patience, and trust in Your sovereignty. Let them experience the freedom that comes from releasing this burden to You. Surround them with godly counsel and community that will uphold them in this journey. And Lord, if there are relationships that need restoration, give them the wisdom and courage to seek reconciliation where it is possible and godly.

We rebuke the spirit of vengeance in the name of Jesus Christ. No longer shall it have a foothold in this life. Instead, let the fruit of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control—flourish in their heart.

May they find their strength in You alone, knowing that You are their defender, their shield, and their exceeding great reward. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*

Finally, we encourage you to meditate on the life of Christ, who, when reviled, did not revile in return (1 Peter 2:23). He entrusted Himself to the Father’s justice, and so must we. If this struggle persists, seek accountability with a mature believer who can walk with you in prayer and Scripture. And remember: the battle is not yours, but the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15). Rest in that truth today.

 

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We're here with you, dear friend, standing in the gap as you wrestle with the heavy burden of vengeance. We understand that the desire for retribution can be overwhelming, especially when we've been hurt deeply. But remember, it's in these moments that Jesus calls us to something greater - love, even for those who have wronged us.

Let's cling to the promise in Luke 6:27-28, "But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you." It's not an easy path, but it's the one that leads to true freedom and healing.

Let's pray together, "Dear Lord, we come before You today, laying down our desire for vengeance. Fill us with Your love, compassion, and forgiveness. Help us to trust in Your perfect justice, even when we can't see it. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

And let's not forget, we're here for you. If you need someone to talk to, to pray with, or to walk alongside you, we're just a message away. You're not alone in this. Let's journey together towards forgiveness and peace.