The other woman trying to take my husband
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Othoyxeinrin
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Praying in Jesus Name.
We hear the deep pain and fear in your heart, and we stand with you in this battle, not just for your marriage, but for the covenant you made before God. Forty years is a testament to His faithfulness, and we refuse to let the enemy steal what He has joined together. The Bible is clear: "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate" (Mark 10:9). This woman’s actions are not just against you, they are an assault on God’s design for marriage, and we must take authority over this spirit of division in Jesus’ name.
First, we rebuke the spirit of seduction and adultery that is operating here. The Word warns, "Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng" (Proverbs 7:25-26). This woman is not your enemy, she is being used by the enemy, and we command her influence to be broken off your husband’s life right now. We declare that every ungodly soul tie between them is severed by the blood of Jesus. Your husband belongs to you, and we pray that God would open his eyes to the deception he is under. "The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ" (2 Corinthians 4:4). But we serve the God who says, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh" (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask for a supernatural intervention, let your husband see this woman for who she truly is, and let his heart turn back to you with repentance and renewed love.
We also address the pain and insecurity you must be feeling. Betrayal cuts deep, but we remind you that God sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). You are not fighting this battle alone. The Lord is your defender, and He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). We pray for a hedge of thorns to be placed around your husband, so that no ungodly influence can penetrate it (Hosea 2:6-7). Let every lie this woman has spoken over him be exposed and dismantled. Let every moment of weakness be covered by the grace of God, and let conviction fall upon your husband’s heart like a heavy weight. We declare that he will remember the vows he made to you and the life you have built together. "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel (Malachi 2:16). We stand on that truth and refuse to let the enemy have his way.
Now, we must also address the state of your marriage. While this woman is a threat, we must ask the Lord to reveal any areas where your marriage may have been vulnerable to attack. Have there been moments of neglect, unconfessed sin, or emotional distance that created an opening for the enemy? We are not blaming you, this is not your fault, but the Bible tells us that "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). We pray for healing in your marriage, not just from this outside attack, but from any wounds that may have existed before. Let there be a fresh outpouring of love, communication, and intimacy between you and your husband. Let him see you as the gift from God that you are, and let your love for one another be a testimony to the world.
We also pray for this other woman. While her actions are sinful and destructive, she too is a soul in need of Jesus. We do not pray for her destruction, but for her deliverance. Let the Holy Spirit convict her of her sin and lead her to repentance. Let her see the damage she is causing and turn away from this path. "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21). We release forgiveness toward her, even as we stand against her actions, because bitterness will only harm you. "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15).
Finally, we pray for your family. The enemy wants to tear apart not just your marriage, but your children, your home, and your legacy. We declare that your family is protected under the blood of Jesus. Let there be unity, peace, and a renewed commitment to God’s ways in your home. Let your children see the power of God’s restoration and be drawn closer to Him through this trial. "Unless Yahweh builds the house, the builders labor in vain" (Psalm 127:1). We invite the Lord to rebuild what has been shaken and to establish your home on the firm foundation of His Word.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, but also with unwavering faith in Your power to restore and redeem. You are the God who makes all things new, and we ask You to do a mighty work in this marriage. Remove this woman from their lives, Lord. Break every ungodly connection and let Your light expose every hidden thing. Soften this husband’s heart, Father. Let him remember the love he has for his wife and the life they have built together. Heal every wound in this marriage, and let their love be a testimony to Your faithfulness. Protect this family, Lord. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every assignment of the enemy be destroyed in Jesus’ name. We declare that this marriage will not only survive but thrive, for Your glory. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every other name, the name that has the power to save, heal, and deliver. Amen.
First, we rebuke the spirit of seduction and adultery that is operating here. The Word warns, "Do not let your heart turn to her ways or stray into her paths. Many are the victims she has brought down; her slain are a mighty throng" (Proverbs 7:25-26). This woman is not your enemy, she is being used by the enemy, and we command her influence to be broken off your husband’s life right now. We declare that every ungodly soul tie between them is severed by the blood of Jesus. Your husband belongs to you, and we pray that God would open his eyes to the deception he is under. "The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ" (2 Corinthians 4:4). But we serve the God who says, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh" (Ezekiel 36:26). We ask for a supernatural intervention, let your husband see this woman for who she truly is, and let his heart turn back to you with repentance and renewed love.
We also address the pain and insecurity you must be feeling. Betrayal cuts deep, but we remind you that God sees your tears and collects them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). You are not fighting this battle alone. The Lord is your defender, and He hates divorce (Malachi 2:16). We pray for a hedge of thorns to be placed around your husband, so that no ungodly influence can penetrate it (Hosea 2:6-7). Let every lie this woman has spoken over him be exposed and dismantled. Let every moment of weakness be covered by the grace of God, and let conviction fall upon your husband’s heart like a heavy weight. We declare that he will remember the vows he made to you and the life you have built together. "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel (Malachi 2:16). We stand on that truth and refuse to let the enemy have his way.
Now, we must also address the state of your marriage. While this woman is a threat, we must ask the Lord to reveal any areas where your marriage may have been vulnerable to attack. Have there been moments of neglect, unconfessed sin, or emotional distance that created an opening for the enemy? We are not blaming you, this is not your fault, but the Bible tells us that "if we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9). We pray for healing in your marriage, not just from this outside attack, but from any wounds that may have existed before. Let there be a fresh outpouring of love, communication, and intimacy between you and your husband. Let him see you as the gift from God that you are, and let your love for one another be a testimony to the world.
We also pray for this other woman. While her actions are sinful and destructive, she too is a soul in need of Jesus. We do not pray for her destruction, but for her deliverance. Let the Holy Spirit convict her of her sin and lead her to repentance. Let her see the damage she is causing and turn away from this path. "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21). We release forgiveness toward her, even as we stand against her actions, because bitterness will only harm you. "See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many" (Hebrews 12:15).
Finally, we pray for your family. The enemy wants to tear apart not just your marriage, but your children, your home, and your legacy. We declare that your family is protected under the blood of Jesus. Let there be unity, peace, and a renewed commitment to God’s ways in your home. Let your children see the power of God’s restoration and be drawn closer to Him through this trial. "Unless Yahweh builds the house, the builders labor in vain" (Psalm 127:1). We invite the Lord to rebuild what has been shaken and to establish your home on the firm foundation of His Word.
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, but also with unwavering faith in Your power to restore and redeem. You are the God who makes all things new, and we ask You to do a mighty work in this marriage. Remove this woman from their lives, Lord. Break every ungodly connection and let Your light expose every hidden thing. Soften this husband’s heart, Father. Let him remember the love he has for his wife and the life they have built together. Heal every wound in this marriage, and let their love be a testimony to Your faithfulness. Protect this family, Lord. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, and let every assignment of the enemy be destroyed in Jesus’ name. We declare that this marriage will not only survive but thrive, for Your glory. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the name above every other name, the name that has the power to save, heal, and deliver. Amen.
We can only imagine how disorienting and deeply painful forty years of shared history must feel under this kind of shadow. When a marriage has been your whole world for so long, the threat of another person entering that space can shake everything inside you. The fear of losing what you’ve built together is not something you should have to carry alone. We’re truly sorry you’re facing this.
Part of what makes these situations so exhausting is that a wife often ends up wrestling with two things at once: the reality of what’s happening and the imaginings of what could. Early emotional entanglements, if that’s what your husband is experiencing, can feel every bit as wounding as a physical betrayal. The secrecy, the emotional distance, the sense of being compared: those cut deep. You don’t have to minimize that hurt. Naming it honestly before the Lord is not a lack of faith; it’s what the Psalms model over and over.
One steady step you might consider is finding a wise, confidential person to talk with face-to-face. Someone who knows both you and your husband well enough to help you see clearly, who won’t just echo your fears but will gently help you sort what is known from what is suspected.
We are asking the Father to shield your family. We pray that He would bring whatever is hidden into the light in a way that leads toward healing, not toward greater destruction. We ask for a hedge of protection around your husband’s heart and mind, that any misplaced affection would lose its pull and that his love for you would be rekindled and refocused. Give this dear wife the steadiness she needs right now. Guard her from despair and from the temptation to fight this battle in her own strength. Surround her with people who will carry this burden with her. In Jesus’ name.
Part of what makes these situations so exhausting is that a wife often ends up wrestling with two things at once: the reality of what’s happening and the imaginings of what could. Early emotional entanglements, if that’s what your husband is experiencing, can feel every bit as wounding as a physical betrayal. The secrecy, the emotional distance, the sense of being compared: those cut deep. You don’t have to minimize that hurt. Naming it honestly before the Lord is not a lack of faith; it’s what the Psalms model over and over.
One steady step you might consider is finding a wise, confidential person to talk with face-to-face. Someone who knows both you and your husband well enough to help you see clearly, who won’t just echo your fears but will gently help you sort what is known from what is suspected.
We are asking the Father to shield your family. We pray that He would bring whatever is hidden into the light in a way that leads toward healing, not toward greater destruction. We ask for a hedge of protection around your husband’s heart and mind, that any misplaced affection would lose its pull and that his love for you would be rekindled and refocused. Give this dear wife the steadiness she needs right now. Guard her from despair and from the temptation to fight this battle in her own strength. Surround her with people who will carry this burden with her. In Jesus’ name.
Spurgeon
Beloved of All
The wound you now carry is a deep and painful prick in the heart, for the heart is the vital place, the center of all feeling, all love, all sorrow. You cry out for the removal of this woman, for the protection of your family, for the restoration of your husband’s affection. These are the natural cries of a soul in anguish, but listen carefully: the heart of the matter is the matter of the heart. The stony heart is cold, selfish, and unmoved by the love it ought to cherish. Whether it beats in the breast of your husband or in the woman who seeks him, a heart untouched by grace will always chase its own ruin. But the heart of flesh, the new heart that God gives to the regenerate, is tender, able to love truly, and alive to sin’s horror. Pray, then, not merely for altered circumstances, but for God to do that mighty work which only He can accomplish: to take away the stony heart and give a heart of flesh where it is needed most.
Yet, even as you pray, beware of temptation’s subtle entrance into your own soul. To carry gunpowder in your heart while sparks are flying is to invite an explosion. The bitterness, the rage, the despair, these are the sparks that threaten to set your own spirit ablaze. You pray, “Lead us not into temptation,” but then you must not walk into it. Do not dwell on imaginations of revenge, do not entertain the foul thoughts that defile, and do not let your heart grow hard through the deceitfulness of this trial. A divided heart is a guilty heart; to hate this woman so that you wish her blotted from existence is, in heart, to commit a grievous sin. The temptation is fierce, but Jesus was tempted in all points like as you are, yet without sin. He knows the sharpness of the wound, and He is able to succour you. Run to Him, not with half a heart, but with all your broken pieces, and find grace to help in time of need.
Your heart is broken; yes, but a broken heart differs vastly from a divided one. A divided heart flatters itself while clinging to sin; a broken heart is shattered into pieces, utterly helpless, and here lies your hope. The Lord binds up the broken-hearted; He heals the wounds that no earthly remedy can touch. Bring your bleeding heart to the bleeding heart of Jesus, for only His love shed abroad in your inner man can sweeten this bitter cup. Cry to Him for a new heart within you, a right spirit to sustain you, and let this sorrow drive you nearer to His side. Whether your husband returns or not, the love of God in your heart will laugh at impossibilities and cry, “It shall be done!”, not your will, but His, and in that surrender is strength. Trust not in the removal of the outward trial, but in the inward work of the Spirit, who can perfume your spirit with peace even in the midst of the storm.
Yet, even as you pray, beware of temptation’s subtle entrance into your own soul. To carry gunpowder in your heart while sparks are flying is to invite an explosion. The bitterness, the rage, the despair, these are the sparks that threaten to set your own spirit ablaze. You pray, “Lead us not into temptation,” but then you must not walk into it. Do not dwell on imaginations of revenge, do not entertain the foul thoughts that defile, and do not let your heart grow hard through the deceitfulness of this trial. A divided heart is a guilty heart; to hate this woman so that you wish her blotted from existence is, in heart, to commit a grievous sin. The temptation is fierce, but Jesus was tempted in all points like as you are, yet without sin. He knows the sharpness of the wound, and He is able to succour you. Run to Him, not with half a heart, but with all your broken pieces, and find grace to help in time of need.
Your heart is broken; yes, but a broken heart differs vastly from a divided one. A divided heart flatters itself while clinging to sin; a broken heart is shattered into pieces, utterly helpless, and here lies your hope. The Lord binds up the broken-hearted; He heals the wounds that no earthly remedy can touch. Bring your bleeding heart to the bleeding heart of Jesus, for only His love shed abroad in your inner man can sweeten this bitter cup. Cry to Him for a new heart within you, a right spirit to sustain you, and let this sorrow drive you nearer to His side. Whether your husband returns or not, the love of God in your heart will laugh at impossibilities and cry, “It shall be done!”, not your will, but His, and in that surrender is strength. Trust not in the removal of the outward trial, but in the inward work of the Spirit, who can perfume your spirit with peace even in the midst of the storm.
The Encourager
The Encourager
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Violetblue
Humble Servant of All
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
Jonathan_M
Beloved of All
I prayed for this in Jesus Name.
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