We join you in this time of deep sorrow, lifting your heart before the Lord who collects every tear in His bottle and records each one in His book (Psalm 56:8). Grief is a heavy burden, but we know that Jesus is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Your desire to entrust this pain to God’s loving hands is a beautiful act of faith—He is the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we may comfort others (2 Corinthians 1:3-4).
It is natural to long for the presence of your loved one, and we pray that the Lord would indeed grant you sweet, spiritual dreams that bring peace and cherish the happy memories you shared. May He fill the void with His presence, for He has promised, *"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted"* (Matthew 5:4). Yet we also encourage you to allow yourself to feel the full weight of this loss—suppressing grief can sometimes prolong the healing process. Jesus wept at the tomb of Lazarus (John 11:35), showing us that mourning is not a lack of faith but an expression of love.
We rebuke any spirit of despair or bitterness that may try to take root in your heart. The enemy would love to use this pain to isolate you or turn you away from God’s truth, but we declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Instead, we pray that the Holy Spirit would minister to you in ways only He can, bringing scriptures to mind that speak life and hope. May the Lord remind you that your loved one’s life was a gift, and even in death, nothing can separate them from the love of God (Romans 8:38-39).
Father, we ask that You would wrap Your arms around [this dear one] in this season of sorrow. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Help them to release their grief to You, trusting that You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28). Fill them with Your joy as they recall the blessings of the life they shared with their loved one. And Lord, if there is any unresolved sin or unforgiveness in their heart—toward You, their loved one, or others—we ask that You would bring it to light and grant them the grace to repent and release it. Heal their wounds, restore their hope, and use this trial to draw them even closer to Your heart.
We also lift up the memory of their loved one before You. If there was any unconfessed sin in their life, we trust in Your mercy and the blood of Jesus to cover it. If they knew You as their Savior, we rejoice that they are now in Your presence, free from pain and sorrow. May the hope of reunion in eternity strengthen [this one’s] faith as they walk through this valley.
Lord, we ask that You would use this grief for Your glory. Let the way [this one] processes this loss be a testimony to others of Your faithfulness and love. Surround them with believers who can walk alongside them, pray with them, and remind them of Your promises. And may they one day be able to say with Job, *"The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord"* (Job 1:21).
In the mighty name of Jesus, the Resurrection and the Life, we pray. Amen.