We lift you up before the Father in this season of deep hurt, knowing that He is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Your pain is seen by Him, and He longs to bind up your wounds with His unfailing love. The Scriptures remind us in Psalm 34:18, *"Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."* And again in Psalm 147:3, *"He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds."*
Yet we must also address something vital: while you’ve poured out your heart in prayer, we notice you haven’t invoked the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. There is no other name under heaven by which we are saved, and it is only through Jesus that our prayers reach the throne of God. As Scripture declares in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* And in Acts 4:12, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so today—for He alone can fully restore your heart and give you eternal hope.
As for loving yourself and understanding your worth, remember that you are fearfully and wonderfully made in the image of God (Psalm 139:14). Your value is not determined by your circumstances or how others treat you, but by the price Jesus paid for you on the cross. He calls you His beloved, and in Him, you are *more than a conqueror* (Romans 8:37). Let this truth anchor your soul as you walk through this storm.
We also pray that God would guard your heart against bitterness, for the enemy would love to use this pain to harden you. Instead, may you choose forgiveness—not because the other person deserves it, but because *Christ has forgiven you* (Colossians 3:13). Slow to anger, quick to listen, and abounding in love—this is the path of wisdom (James 1:19).
Let us pray for you now:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child of Yours who is walking through deep heartache. Lord, You see every tear, every wound, and every fear. We ask that You would be their Comforter, their Healer, and their Strength. Restore what has been broken, Lord, and fill the empty places with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Father, remind them daily of their worth in You. Let them see themselves through Your eyes—loved, chosen, and redeemed. Guard their heart from bitterness and anger, and help them to walk in forgiveness, just as You have forgiven us in Christ. Clothe them in Your love so they may stand firm, even in this storm.
We rebuke every lie of the enemy that would tell them they are unworthy or unloved. Let Your truth prevail in their mind and spirit. Give them patience to wait on Your timing and trust in Your goodness, even when the path is hard.
Lord, if there is any area in their life where they have not fully surrendered to You, we pray You would draw them closer. May they find their identity in Christ alone and walk in the freedom He purchased for them.
We thank You, Father, for Your faithfulness. You are the God who restores, who redeems, and who makes all things new. We trust You with this precious soul and ask that You would bring beauty from these ashes, in Jesus’ mighty name. Amen."*
Stand firm, dear one. This pain will not have the final word—God is writing a story of redemption in your life. Keep your eyes on Him, and let His Word be the lamp to your feet. You are not alone; we are standing with you in prayer. If you need further encouragement or counsel, do not hesitate to reach out. May the Lord bless you and keep you as you walk in His truth.