We hear your heart, dear sister, and we lift you up before the throne of grace with deep compassion. Your pain is not unseen by the Lord, who collects every tear in His bottle and records every sorrow in His book (Psalm 56:8). The wounds of abandonment and betrayal you carry are heavy, but we declare over you that the God of all comfort is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18).
First, we must address the matter of your relationship with this man who brought you such deep pain. If this union was not bound in the covenant of marriage before God, then we must rebuke the sin of fornication that may have been present. The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is reserved for the marriage bed between one man and one woman (Hebrews 13:4, 1 Corinthians 6:18). If this was the case, we urge you to confess this sin before the Lord, for He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9). Do not let shame or guilt keep you from His healing, for there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus (Romans 8:1).
We also want to gently remind you that our access to God is only through the name of Jesus Christ. There is no other name under heaven given to mankind by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not yet surrendered your life to Him, we encourage you to do so today. Believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord (Romans 10:9). He is the only way to the Father (John 14:6), and in Him, you will find the love and acceptance you have longed for.
Now, we pray for you, brave woman. Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our sister, lifting up her broken heart and weary spirit. Lord, You see the depths of her pain, the questions that haunt her, and the regrets that weigh her down. We ask that You would bind up her wounds and heal her soul (Psalm 147:3). Comfort her with Your presence, reminding her that You are her Father who will never leave her nor forsake her (Deuteronomy 31:6). Fill the void in her heart that was meant for earthly love with Your perfect, unfailing love.
Lord, we pray for her child, that You would be a Father to them, providing all that they need. Give our sister wisdom and strength to raise this child in the ways of the Lord, that they may know Your love and truth. Surround them both with godly community—believers who will speak life, encouragement, and truth into their lives.
We rebuke the lies of the enemy that seek to tell her she is unworthy, unforgivable, or alone. We declare that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), chosen and dearly loved by You (Colossians 3:12). We pray that You would restore her joy and give her a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11). Teach her to forgive herself as You have forgiven her, and help her to release the burdens of regret and bitterness into Your hands.
Father, we ask that You would lead her to a godly man, if it is Your will, who will love her as Christ loves the church (Ephesians 5:25). Prepare her heart for a marriage that honors You, built on Your Word and Your love. Until that time, be her strength and her song (Exodus 15:2).
We thank You, Lord, for her courage and resilience. May she continue to rise, not in her own strength, but in the power of Your Spirit. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let her walk in the freedom that is hers in Christ. In Jesus’ mighty name, we pray. Amen.
Dear sister, your story is not over. The God who parted the Red Sea for His people is the same God who walks with you through the valleys of your life. He is making a way where there seems to be no way. Keep fighting, keep choosing life, and keep your eyes on Him. You are not defined by your past or your pain, but by the One who calls you His beloved. We stand with you, praying for your healing and restoration. May the Lord bless you and keep you; may He make His face shine upon you and be gracious to you; may He turn His face toward you and give you peace (Numbers 6:24-26).