The Aftermath: sorting through the “ashes”

Anonymous

Beloved of All
This happened. At my job, a group mobbed me. Colleagues conspired against me and there is solid evidence of these people saying that the managers/perpetrators who eventually pushed me out of my job were very fair to me. Father you KNOW the truth, they were not fair in fact they plotted, schemed, harassed and blatantly lied on me. There was some inappropriate/unwanted physical contact as well. Father I tried to stand up to them in a firm way but they denied, deflected, dismissed my concerns. So I eventually left as no more could be done. Father you saw my work, you saw that I followed the work instructions given by the managers. I minded my own business and was cordial but never harassed anyone nor did I retaliate. I simply spoke truth about what was happening to me. I cry at times wondering how to navigate the aftermath. I cry out to you each day and am honest with you. You gave me these “hands” to do my work. Each task assigned was welcomed and I did my best to accomplish the goals of that office. I did make mistakes, some were basic human error and others were due to incessant harassment. I strived each day to assist our clients, be punctual and answer the call of duty. However, it was met with disdain and I was assigned double the work of the other colleagues. I just could not keep up with the work, abuse nor was I able to reason with the managers or higher ups. Colleagues “on my level” were also participants in/bystanders to the abuse. I wonder when I’ll be accepted to a better job based on my applications. I fell behind on major financial obligations and don’t think there’s a way out. I’ve forgiven but it still stings and I’m sorting through the ashes.
 
We hear the deep pain and injustice in your words, and we stand with you in this season of sorrow and restoration. The betrayal, harassment, and deliberate cruelty you endured at the hands of those who should have treated you with fairness and dignity is grievous in the sight of God. He sees every tear you have shed, every untruth spoken against you, and every moment of suffering you endured while trying to do your work with integrity. You did not deserve this, and the Lord Himself is your defender.

The Scripture tells us in **Psalm 37:5-6 (WEB)**, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* You have already demonstrated incredible strength by forgiving those who wronged you, even as the wounds still ache. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was right—it means you are releasing the burden of bitterness to the Lord, who judges justly. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*

Yet we must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he often uses people—even those in authority—to carry out his schemes. But the Lord is your shield and your exceedingly great reward (Genesis 15:1). The harassment, the lies, the physical violations, and the overwhelming workload were not just professional failures—they were spiritual attacks meant to break you. But you are *more than a conqueror* through Christ (Romans 8:37). The fact that you stood firm in truth, refused to retaliate, and continued to cry out to the Father speaks volumes of your character and faith.

Now, as you sort through the "ashes" of this season, remember that God specializes in bringing beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). The financial strain, the uncertainty of employment, and the emotional toll are real, but they are not the end of your story. **Philippians 4:19 (WEB)** declares, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* He is not unaware of your obligations or your desperation. Trust that He is already making a way where there seems to be none. We encourage you to seek wise counsel—perhaps through a biblically grounded career advisor or a church community that can help you navigate job opportunities. Keep applying, keep trusting, and keep your eyes open for doors the Lord may open in unexpected places.

As for the lingering sting of betrayal, it is okay to grieve. Jesus Himself wept over the brokenness of this world (John 11:35). But do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to this job or the opinions of those who wronged you. Your identity is in Christ—*chosen, redeemed, and beloved* (Ephesians 1:4-5). The Lord is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He is walking with you through every application, every interview, and every moment of waiting.

Lastly, we notice that while you cried out to "Father," you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your plea. There is *no other name* under heaven by which we are saved, and it is *only through Jesus* that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess with your mouth that He is Lord, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). It is in His name that we have authority over the enemy, peace in suffering, and hope for the future.

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**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, the God of all comfort and justice. Lord, You saw every scheme plotted in darkness, every lie whispered, every hand raised in harassment, and every moment of unfair labor placed upon them. You are not silent—You are a God who avenges the oppressed (Psalm 103:6). We ask that You vindicate them, not for their sake alone, but for the sake of Your holy name. Let their righteousness shine like the dawn, and let their justice be like the noonday sun (Psalm 37:6).

Father, we rebuke the spirit of injustice, deception, and harassment that operated through those in authority. We break every assignment of shame, rejection, and financial lack over their life in the mighty name of Jesus. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25)—open doors of favor for employment that exceeds what they lost. Provide supernatural wisdom as they navigate financial obligations, and let them experience Your miraculous provision.

Lord, heal the wounds of betrayal. Where trust has been broken, restore their heart. Where confidence has been shaken, remind them that they are *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14). Let them walk in the assurance that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Peace. Remove every trace of bitterness or fear, and fill them with Your love and joy.

We declare that their next season is one of *restoration, promotion, and divine connections*. Surround them with godly community—people who will speak life, offer support, and walk with them in this journey. Let them encounter Your goodness in tangible ways, so that their testimony will be a beacon of hope to others who suffer injustice.

And Father, if they have not yet surrendered fully to Jesus Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. Open their eyes to see Him as their Savior, their Redeemer, and their only hope. Let them know the power of praying *in Jesus’ name*, for it is the name above all names (Philippians 2:9-11).

We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust You to move mightily on their behalf. In the powerful and matchless name of **Jesus Christ**, we pray. Amen.
 
Oh, dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of the injustice you've faced. It's like you've been walking through a dark, ash-covered valley, but remember, God is right there with you, guiding your steps.

We know you've been honest with God, crying out to Him each day. That's exactly what we should do, pouring out our hearts to Him. He sees every tear, every wrong, every moment of unfairness. He's taken note of every task you've welcomed and completed with integrity, and every harassment you've endured.

We want to remind you of something Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" (Matthew 5:4). It's okay to grieve, to feel the sting of betrayal. But remember, your worth is not tied to a job or the opinions of others. You are chosen, redeemed, and beloved in Christ (Ephesians 1:4-5).

Keep trusting, keep applying, and keep your eyes open for the doors God might open. He's already making a way where there seems to be none. And remember, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19).

We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to vindicate you, to restore what was lost, and to heal the wounds of betrayal. We're declaring that your next season will be one of restoration, promotion, and divine connections. And we're trusting that God will move mightily on your behalf, in Jesus' name.
 

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