The Aftermath: sorting through the “ashes”

Anonymous

Beloved of All
This happened. At my job, a group mobbed me. Colleagues conspired against me and there is solid evidence of these people saying that the managers/perpetrators who eventually pushed me out of my job were very fair to me. Father you KNOW the truth, they were not fair in fact they plotted, schemed, harassed and blatantly lied on me. There was some inappropriate/unwanted physical contact as well. Father I tried to stand up to them in a firm way but they denied, deflected, dismissed my concerns. So I eventually left as no more could be done. Father you saw my work, you saw that I followed the work instructions given by the managers. I minded my own business and was cordial but never harassed anyone nor did I retaliate. I simply spoke truth about what was happening to me. I cry at times wondering how to navigate the aftermath. I cry out to you each day and am honest with you. You gave me these “hands” to do my work. Each task assigned was welcomed and I did my best to accomplish the goals of that office. I did make mistakes, some were basic human error and others were due to incessant harassment. I strived each day to assist our clients, be punctual and answer the call of duty. However, it was met with disdain and I was assigned double the work of the other colleagues. I just could not keep up with the work, abuse nor was I able to reason with the managers or higher ups. Colleagues “on my level” were also participants in/bystanders to the abuse. I wonder when I’ll be accepted to a better job based on my applications. I fell behind on major financial obligations and don’t think there’s a way out. I’ve forgiven but it still stings and I’m sorting through the ashes.
 
We hear the deep pain and injustice in your words, and we stand with you in this season of sorrow and restoration. The betrayal, harassment, and deliberate cruelty you endured at the hands of those who should have treated you with fairness and dignity is grievous in the sight of God. He sees every tear you have shed, every untruth spoken against you, and every moment of suffering you endured while trying to do your work with integrity. You did not deserve this, and the Lord Himself is your defender.

The Scripture tells us in **Psalm 37:5-6 (WEB)**, *"Commit your way to Yahweh. Trust also in him, and he will do this: he will bring out your righteousness as the light, and your justice as the noon day sun."* You have already demonstrated incredible strength by forgiving those who wronged you, even as the wounds still ache. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was right—it means you are releasing the burden of bitterness to the Lord, who judges justly. **Romans 12:19 (WEB)** reminds us, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*

Yet we must also address the spiritual warfare at play here. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and he often uses people—even those in authority—to carry out his schemes. But the Lord is your shield and your exceedingly great reward (Genesis 15:1). The harassment, the lies, the physical violations, and the overwhelming workload were not just professional failures—they were spiritual attacks meant to break you. But you are *more than a conqueror* through Christ (Romans 8:37). The fact that you stood firm in truth, refused to retaliate, and continued to cry out to the Father speaks volumes of your character and faith.

Now, as you sort through the "ashes" of this season, remember that God specializes in bringing beauty from ashes (Isaiah 61:3). The financial strain, the uncertainty of employment, and the emotional toll are real, but they are not the end of your story. **Philippians 4:19 (WEB)** declares, *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus."* He is not unaware of your obligations or your desperation. Trust that He is already making a way where there seems to be none. We encourage you to seek wise counsel—perhaps through a biblically grounded career advisor or a church community that can help you navigate job opportunities. Keep applying, keep trusting, and keep your eyes open for doors the Lord may open in unexpected places.

As for the lingering sting of betrayal, it is okay to grieve. Jesus Himself wept over the brokenness of this world (John 11:35). But do not let the enemy convince you that your worth is tied to this job or the opinions of those who wronged you. Your identity is in Christ—*chosen, redeemed, and beloved* (Ephesians 1:4-5). The Lord is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18), and He is walking with you through every application, every interview, and every moment of waiting.

Lastly, we notice that while you cried out to "Father," you did not invoke the name of Jesus in your plea. There is *no other name* under heaven by which we are saved, and it is *only through Jesus* that we have access to the Father (John 14:6, Acts 4:12). If you have not already, we urge you to place your full trust in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. Confess with your mouth that He is Lord, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). It is in His name that we have authority over the enemy, peace in suffering, and hope for the future.

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**Let us pray together:**

Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, the God of all comfort and justice. Lord, You saw every scheme plotted in darkness, every lie whispered, every hand raised in harassment, and every moment of unfair labor placed upon them. You are not silent—You are a God who avenges the oppressed (Psalm 103:6). We ask that You vindicate them, not for their sake alone, but for the sake of Your holy name. Let their righteousness shine like the dawn, and let their justice be like the noonday sun (Psalm 37:6).

Father, we rebuke the spirit of injustice, deception, and harassment that operated through those in authority. We break every assignment of shame, rejection, and financial lack over their life in the mighty name of Jesus. No weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Restore what the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25)—open doors of favor for employment that exceeds what they lost. Provide supernatural wisdom as they navigate financial obligations, and let them experience Your miraculous provision.

Lord, heal the wounds of betrayal. Where trust has been broken, restore their heart. Where confidence has been shaken, remind them that they are *fearfully and wonderfully made* (Psalm 139:14). Let them walk in the assurance that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Peace. Remove every trace of bitterness or fear, and fill them with Your love and joy.

We declare that their next season is one of *restoration, promotion, and divine connections*. Surround them with godly community—people who will speak life, offer support, and walk with them in this journey. Let them encounter Your goodness in tangible ways, so that their testimony will be a beacon of hope to others who suffer injustice.

And Father, if they have not yet surrendered fully to Jesus Christ, we pray that today would be the day of salvation. Open their eyes to see Him as their Savior, their Redeemer, and their only hope. Let them know the power of praying *in Jesus’ name*, for it is the name above all names (Philippians 2:9-11).

We thank You, Lord, for hearing our prayer. We trust You to move mightily on their behalf. In the powerful and matchless name of **Jesus Christ**, we pray. Amen.
 
Oh, dear friend, we're here with you, feeling the weight of the injustice you've faced. It's like you've been walking through a dark, ash-covered valley, but remember, God is right there with you, guiding your steps.

We know you've been honest with God, crying out to Him each day. That's exactly what we should do, pouring out our hearts to Him. He sees every tear, every wrong, every moment of unfairness. He's taken note of every task you've welcomed and completed with integrity, and every harassment you've endured.

We want to remind you of something Jesus said, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted" (Matthew 5:4). It's okay to grieve, to feel the sting of betrayal. But remember, your worth is not tied to a job or the opinions of others. You are chosen, redeemed, and beloved in Christ (Ephesians 1:4-5).

Keep trusting, keep applying, and keep your eyes open for the doors God might open. He's already making a way where there seems to be none. And remember, "My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus" (Philippians 4:19).

We're praying for you, dear friend. We're asking God to vindicate you, to restore what was lost, and to heal the wounds of betrayal. We're declaring that your next season will be one of restoration, promotion, and divine connections. And we're trusting that God will move mightily on your behalf, in Jesus' name.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Healed Spirit Soul And Body

 
We want to lift our voices once more in prayer with you, our brother, as you continue to walk through this painful season of betrayal and injustice. The wounds of workplace persecution run deep, especially when those who should have stood for fairness instead became instruments of harm. We grieve with you over the cruelty you endured—the lies spoken against you, the heavy workload designed to break you, and the isolation of standing alone in the truth while others turned away. Your heart for excellence, even in the midst of such oppression, is a testament to the strength God has placed within you. He saw every late night, every tear shed in secret, every moment you chose integrity over retaliation. You are not forgotten by Him.

We have been praying that the Lord would restore what was stolen from you—your peace, your reputation, your financial stability, and your sense of purpose in work. It is not lost on us that you are still waiting for the breakthrough, still sorting through the ashes of what was left behind. The sting of forgiveness does not mean the pain has vanished, but it does mean you have chosen the path of Christ, who was also betrayed by those He served. We ask the Father to meet you in the raw honesty of your tears, to turn your mourning into a testimony of His faithfulness, and to open doors no man can shut. May He provide for your financial needs in ways that leave no doubt it was His hand at work, and may He surround you with a community that reflects His justice and love.

If there has been even a glimmer of hope—a job interview, a restored relationship, or a moment of unexpected peace—we would love to rejoice with you in praise. If the burden still feels heavy, know that we remain steadfast in prayer alongside you. This is not the end of your story. The God who sees your work, your heart, and your suffering is the same God who raises the lowly and seats them in places of honor. We declare that your next chapter will be marked by His redemption, where your skills are valued, your character is respected, and your labor is met with fairness.

Keep bringing your honest cries before the Father. He is near to the brokenhearted, and He will not leave you in the ashes. We are standing with you, believing for His justice, His provision, and His perfect timing in Jesus’ name.
 

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