We come before the Lord with you in this request, lifting your concerns to Him with hearts seeking His wisdom and will. It is clear you are experiencing deep frustration and spiritual distress, and we want to address this with both prayer and biblical truth to bring clarity and peace.
First, we praise you for turning to Jesus Christ in prayer, for it is only through His name that we have access to the Father and find true deliverance. As Scripture declares, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). Your faith in calling upon Him is commendable, and we join you in seeking His intervention.
However, we must gently address some concerns in your request that require biblical correction and perspective. The idea of "emulations" or spiritual vampirism—where others are somehow benefiting from your spiritual growth without their own effort—is not a biblical concept. While spiritual warfare is real, and the enemy can influence minds and behaviors, we must be careful not to attribute human sin or natural behaviors to supernatural forces without clear scriptural grounding. The Bible warns us that our struggle is *"not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places"* (Ephesians 6:12, WEB). Yet, it also calls us to examine our own hearts and responses, ensuring we are not harboring bitterness, resentment, or an accusatory spirit toward others.
You mention that family members are "annoying" you, and you ask for the destruction of their religious connection to you. While it is understandable to feel frustrated when others do not share your spiritual zeal or seem to benefit from your prayers without reciprocity, we must remember that our call is to love—even when it is difficult. Jesus said, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This includes family members who may not understand or appreciate your spiritual journey. Instead of seeking to sever connections, we are called to pray for their salvation and growth, trusting God to work in their hearts in His timing.
Additionally, the idea of others "leeching" from your spiritual progress or benefiting "illogically" from your prayers is not aligned with how God works. When we pray for others—even those who do not pray for themselves—we are acting as intercessors, just as Christ intercedes for us (Romans 8:34). Our prayers are not a zero-sum game where others’ gain comes at our expense. Instead, God’s economy is one of abundance, and He calls us to *"bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2, WEB). If you feel drained, it may be a sign to examine whether you are operating in your own strength rather than resting in the Holy Spirit’s power.
As for the mention of "euphoric body highs" and drug use, we must address this with urgency. Substance use that alters the mind or body outside of God’s design is a form of idolatry and rebellion against the temple of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). If this is something you or those around you are struggling with, we strongly urge repentance and a turning to Christ for deliverance. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). There is freedom in Christ, and He can break every chain of addiction or ungodly influence.
Finally, your request includes a focus on ### (which we assume refers to a location or group you did not name). While we understand the desire for privacy, we encourage you to be specific in your prayers to God, who already knows the details. However, we must also caution against an unhealthy fixation on the behaviors or perceived spiritual states of others. Jesus warned against judging others hypocritically: *"Why do you see the speck that is in your brother’s eye, but don’t consider the beam that is in your own eye?"* (Matthew 7:3, WEB). Our primary focus should be on our own walk with Christ, trusting Him to handle the hearts of others.
With these things in mind, let us pray together for you and this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother/sister who is experiencing spiritual distress and frustration. Lord, we ask that You grant them a spirit of peace and discernment, that they may see this situation through Your eyes and not their own understanding. Father, we rebuke any spirit of bitterness, resentment, or accusation that may be taking root in their heart. Replace it with Your love, patience, and grace, that they may respond to their family members with kindness and wisdom.
Lord, we pray for the family members involved. Softening their hearts, Lord, and draw them to Yourself. If there are any spiritual influences at work that are not of You, we command them to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Break any ungodly ties or agreements that have been made knowingly or unknowingly, and let Your Holy Spirit bring conviction where it is needed.
Father, we also ask for deliverance from any form of addiction or ungodly influence mentioned—whether it be substances, ungodly euphoria, or any other thing that seeks to distract from Your truth. We declare freedom in the name of Jesus, for *"whom the Son makes free, is free indeed"* (John 8:36, WEB).
Lord, we ask that You guard our brother/sister’s heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Help them to release the burden of trying to control or understand the spiritual states of others. Instead, let them focus on their own walk with You, trusting that You are at work in ways they cannot see. Fill them with Your joy and peace as they continue to seek You first.
We pray for protection over their spiritual growth, that it may not be hindered by distraction or discouragement. Let them find rest in You, knowing that *"the Lord is the one who goes before you. He will be with you. He will not fail you nor forsake you. Don’t be afraid. Don’t be discouraged"* (Deuteronomy 31:8, WEB).
Finally, Father, we ask that You reveal to them any areas in their own life that need surrender or repentance. Let them walk in humility and grace, extending the same mercy to others that You have so freely given to them.
We pray all these things in the powerful and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We encourage you to meditate on the following Scriptures as you navigate this season:
- *"Cast all your worries on him, because he cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7, WEB).
- *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB).
- *"Don’t be anxious for anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:6-7, WEB).
Stay rooted in prayer, in the Word, and in fellowship with believers who can support and encourage you. If you feel overwhelmed, seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can help you process these feelings in a biblical way. You are not alone in this, and God is faithful to complete the work He has begun in you (Philippians 1:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
