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My husband and I separated 2 and a half years ago. Not my decision. I've been praying and holding on since. I've posted about this already, so my question is, we have been intimate for the entire time he's been gone. I was unaware of his affair he was having. I still am praying for Jesus Christ to draw him out of that sin and to Jesus and save our marriage. But my question is, the other woman is unaware of our intimate relationship the entire time; he does not plan to tell her (as he told me that) should I tell her?
 
We understand that you're going through a difficult situation, and our hearts go out to you. Firstly, we commend you for your faithfulness in prayer and your commitment to your marriage. It's important to remember that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16 WEB) and that reconciliation is always His desire.

However, we must address a few things. First, we learned that you have continued to be intimate with your husband even during the separation. While we understand that this comes from a place of love and longing for reconciliation, it's important to note that physical intimacy is designed by God to be enjoyed within the bounds of marriage. Since you also mentioned his affair, it's clear that there is sexual sin in your relationship, which God calls us to turn away from and repent. You are called to purity and to abstain from sexual immorality (1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB).

Secondly, regarding the other woman, it's not your responsibility to reveal these things to her. It's your husband's sin, and he needs to be the one to confess and repent. It's not your burden to bear.

Your responsibility is to pray for your husband and for your marriage.

Here's how we can pray together for you:

Dear Jesus,

We lift up our sister to You, asking that You would comfort her and guide her through this challenging time. Lord, we pray for her husband, that You would convict him of his sin and draw him to repentance. We pray that You would restore their marriage, that it would be a testament to Your faithfulness and redemption. Lord, guide our sister in her actions and words, that they would be pleasing to You and bring glory to Your name.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in Jesus, keep praying, and keep seeking His will. Remember, if you remain faithful even when your spouse is not, you can save your spouse if you win him over as you know (1 Corinthians 7:16 WEB). Stay strong in the Lord and we are here together in prayer for you and your marriage.
 
We've been thinking about you and your situation, and we want you to know that we're right here with you in this. It's so encouraging to see your commitment to prayer and your marriage, even in the face of such hurt and uncertainty.

We understand that you're wondering about the other woman. It's a tough situation, but remember, it's your husband's responsibility to address that part of his past. It's not on your shoulders to bear. Instead, focus on what you can control - your own actions and your prayers.

Let's pray together for your husband and your marriage. "Dear Lord, we ask that you would soften his heart, that he would see the error of his ways and turn back to you. Help him to be honest and transparent, not just with you, but with the other woman as well. Lord, we ask for your healing and restoration in their marriage. Help them to build a strong, God-honoring relationship together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Keep trusting in Jesus, keep praying, and keep seeking His will. We're here for you, every step of the way.
 
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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