Taimi and Seppo Johannes Ensio

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Behöver ensam ###! Jesus and my mother has gone with Lord Jesus!Kasvatus- ja kehitys minun radion ääressä ja mitä minä tuolloin naida, raiskata, pääseminen ja mitä seurauksista he puhuivat, minä teoissa sanoissa? - Puolestani ehdoton seuraus heille, ehdoton seuraus minulle, ehdoton ei mitään seurauksia äidilleni.

 

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Topic Automatically Translated From Finnish and Swedish Language:

I need ### alone! Jesus and my mother has gone with Lord Jesus! Upbringing and development next to my radio and what I at that time [was to] fuck, rape, climaxing and what they were saying about the consequences, me in deeds and words? - For my part, absolute consequences for them, absolute consequences for me, absolutely no consequences for my mother.

 

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We hear your cry and we stand with you in prayer together in Jesus' name, asking for God's peace and clarity over what you have shared. We understand you are asking for time alone, that you love Jesus and that your mother has now gone to be with the Lord Jesus, and you are wrestling with your upbringing, what you heard and experienced growing up, even what came through the radio, and with deep and painful matters concerning sexuality, including words and deeds related to fornication, rape and climaxing, and the consequences spoken of and lived out, and you feel a heavy burden about consequences for others, for yourself, and for your mother.

We want to gently and truthfully address what you have raised about sexuality. God's Word is clear that sex is a gift designed by God to be enjoyed only within the lifelong covenant of marriage between a man and a woman. Any sexual activity outside of that covenant is fornication or adultery and is sin before God. Hebrews 13:4 says marriage should be honored among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 tells us to flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Rape in particular is a grave violence and wickedness that God hates, and those who commit such acts will give account to Him. At the same time if you have been wounded or exposed to such things against your will, we want you to know that the Lord sees your pain and is near to the brokenhearted. Psalm 147:3 says He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds. Psalm 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.

We also hear your anguish about consequences. It is true that sin has consequences, for Romans 6:23 says the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Yet for those who are in Christ there is mercy and forgiveness and no condemnation. Romans 8:1 says there is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus. If your mother was in Christ and has gone to be with the Lord Jesus, we rejoice with you that she is at peace and without condemnation, for to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord as 2 Corinthians 5:8 teaches, and Revelation 21:4 promises He will wipe away from them every tear from their eyes. Death will be no more, neither will there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain, any more. The fact that she bears no consequences now is not injustice but grace, for 1 John 1:9 says if we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Psalm 103:12 says as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. If you are carrying guilt for words and deeds in your own life, God invites you to bring them fully into His light for forgiveness and cleansing.

We also understand your need to be alone. There is a godly alone time with Jesus that brings healing. Psalm 46:10 says Be still, and know that I am God. Matthew 11:28 says Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Withdrawing to be alone with the Lord in prayer and in His Word is good for renewing the mind after a difficult upbringing and after being influenced by voices around you, including what you heard on the radio. Romans 12:2 says Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God. 2 Corinthians 5:17 says therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new.

We pray together for you now. Father in heaven, we come before You only through the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved and have access to You, as Acts 4:12 and John 14:6 teach. We thank You for this dear one who loves Jesus and for the comfort that his mother is with You. We ask You to surround him with Your peace that surpasses all understanding as Philippians 4:7 promises. We ask You to heal the wounds of his upbringing and development, to wash away confusion and defilement from what he heard and saw, and to renew his mind by Your Holy Spirit and Your Word. If there is any unconfessed sin in words or deeds related to sexual immorality, we ask for deep conviction and repentance and for the full assurance of forgiveness through the blood of Jesus. If there is trauma from being sinned against, we ask for Your gentle healing, for restoration, and for freedom from shame. Help him to walk in purity, to flee sexual immorality, and to honor You with his body as 1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 teaches, that each one should know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor. Grant him healthy, quiet time alone with You to hear Your voice, to be still, and to grow in grace. Lead him into godly community and wise counseling that honors Your Word, and let him know that You are a just God who will judge righteously, yet You are also merciful and ready to forgive all who call on Jesus. We ask all this in the precious name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.

We encourage you to remain alone with the Lord daily in prayer and Scripture, to confess openly to Him anything that weighs on your conscience, to turn away from any sexual sin and to pursue holiness, and to seek a trusted pastor or mature Christian counselor who can walk with you through these memories and questions. God sees, God judges justly, and God forgives fully through Jesus, and He desires to make you whole.

 

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We have read your message, ### and ###, and we want you to know we hear the weight in it. Losing your mother and feeling alone in that grief is a deep ache, and it makes sense that you would feel unsettled and want space to be alone for a time. We also hear how much you are carrying as you look back on your upbringing, things heard on the radio, things said and done, and questions about consequences for yourself and for others.

Grief can bring all of those memories and questions to the surface at once, and it can feel very confusing and heavy to sort through alone. You do not have to carry this entirely by yourself.

One steady next step we would encourage is to share this burden with one safe person face to face in the coming days, whether a pastor, a trusted mature believer, or a counselor in your community who can listen with care and help you walk through both the loss and the painful memories at a gentle pace. If you are part of a local church, simply being present among God's people in worship can also help loneliness feel less sharp, even when words are hard to find.

Father, we lift ### and ### to You in Jesus' name. You see their grief over their mother who is now with You, and You see the loneliness and the confusion about the past. Bring Your comfort, Your clear guidance, and Your healing presence. Surround them with safe, caring support and lead them step by step in Your will. Amen.

 

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There is a sorrow and a loneliness in your words which has touched my heart, and there is also a word of hope, that your mother has gone to be with the Lord Jesus. For those who are in Christ, to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord, and we sorrow not as those without hope.

You speak of being alone, and of an upbringing much formed by voices over the radio, with confusion about marriage and purity and consequences. Know this, that our Lord Jesus Himself knew what it was to be left alone just when as Man He most needed human sympathy. He was left alone in His suffering, and He cried, Could ye not watch with Me one hour. He understands the loneliness of the soul in deep conflict, and He is able to sympathize and to sustain you now. You are not hidden from Him in your solitary place.

You write of deeds and words, of marrying and of sin, and of consequences desired and feared. Hear the word of the Lord, There is forgiveness with Him. This is not a forgiveness which we earn, for God says, I, even I, am He that blotteth out thy transgressions for Mine own sake. It is a divine forgiveness, complete and eternal, purchased by the matchless atonement of Christ who suffered, the Just for the unjust, that He might bring us to God. Whatever your life has been until now, there is forgiveness for every repenting and believing sinner who comes to God through Jesus Christ alone, for salvation is in no other.

Yet mark this well, that when the Son removes guilt, the Spirit removes guile. The work of the Spirit is linked with the work of the Son. Forgiveness is not a cloak to continue in iniquity. He who has truly received it confesses all his guilt and heartily humbles himself before God, and he forsakes the sin which he confesses. He no longer makes excuses nor strains his conscience to hush its protests, but he turns from his former way. If we cling to sin, we cannot expect to find peace with God.

Concerning what you mention of marriage and of sexual sin, hear the truth in love. God has ordained marriage to be a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and it is within that holy covenant alone that the union of husband and wife belongs. All that lies outside it, whether fornication, adultery, or violence such as rape, is sin against God and against our neighbor, and brings deep wounding and consequence. We cannot ask God to bless what He calls sin, but we can and do ask Him to bring conviction, repentance, cleansing, and healing. If you have sinned in deed or in word, bring it plainly to Christ without guile, trust His blood to cover all your guilt, and by His grace walk in newness of life.

You ask for absolute consequence for others and for yourself, and no consequence for your mother. The Lord is just, and He will not call evil good, but He is also full of mercy. For your mother, if she died trusting Christ, her debt is cancelled, for God has promised oblivion to all the debt of those who put their trust in Him. Her sins are swallowed up forever in the depths of the sea. For you and for those you name, ### and ###, the same fountain is open. Come with a penitent heart and desire forgiveness, believe in the forgiveness of sins through Christ, and you shall find that He not only forgives at the first, but continues daily to forgive and to restore.

I pray for you now, that the Lord will lift the burden of loneliness and confusion, that He will draw you to His Word more than to any other voice, that He will grant you clear sight of sin and of the Savior, and that He will give you a new heart that loves holiness. May you know the blessedness of the man whose transgression is forgiven, whose sin is covered, and in whose spirit there is no guile. Look to Jesus, trust Him alone, and walk in His way.

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name.