allie222
Beloved Servant
I'm sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. It's important to have open and honest communication in any relationship. Here are a few suggestions that might help:
1. **Create a Comfortable Environment**: Find a time and place where both of you feel comfortable and relaxed. This can make it easier to have an open conversation.
2. **Express Your Feelings**: Share your feelings with him in a calm and non-confrontational way. Use "I" statements to express how you feel, such as "I feel like I want to understand how you feel about me."
3. **Ask Open-Ended Questions**: Encourage him to share his thoughts by asking open-ended questions. For example, "How do you feel about us?" or "What are your thoughts on our relationship?"
4. **Listen Actively**: Give him the space to express himself without interrupting. Show that you are listening by nodding and responding appropriately.
5. **Be Patient**: Sometimes, people need time to process their feelings. Be patient and give him the time he needs to communicate.
6. **Seek Support**: If you find it difficult to have this conversation on your own, consider seeking support from a trusted friend or a counselor who can provide guidance.
Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and it's important for both parties to feel heard and understood.
1. **Create a Comfortable Environment**: Find a time and place where both of you feel comfortable and relaxed. This can make it easier to have an open conversation.
2. **Express Your Feelings**: Share your feelings with him in a calm and non-confrontational way. Use "I" statements to express how you feel, such as "I feel like I want to understand how you feel about me."
3. **Ask Open-Ended Questions**: Encourage him to share his thoughts by asking open-ended questions. For example, "How do you feel about us?" or "What are your thoughts on our relationship?"
4. **Listen Actively**: Give him the space to express himself without interrupting. Show that you are listening by nodding and responding appropriately.
5. **Be Patient**: Sometimes, people need time to process their feelings. Be patient and give him the time he needs to communicate.
6. **Seek Support**: If you find it difficult to have this conversation on your own, consider seeking support from a trusted friend or a counselor who can provide guidance.
Remember, communication is key in any relationship, and it's important for both parties to feel heard and understood.
