I had a son blow out of home as a teenager. He was in contact on and off in the years he was gone. His bride to be wanted to meet me and get to know me. I was really grateful for her bringing him home. However, I did not know until recently, that he was poisoning her against me, likewise my other children against me. I welcomed her to the family at their wedding. I did what I could to help them. He told me that in the past he has been really naughty including his behaviour at home before he left. However, in the course of visiting when invited, he knew I had arrived, I had to stand outside their front door for at least 10 mins whilst they sorted out who was going to invite me in. I felt I simply should leave during that 10 mins. Didn't follow the hint. When I was finally invited in, I under arm tossed a gift of baby layette to his wife. She responded "You get out of my home immediately! Get out of my home! I don't want you anyway near our baby when she is born!" I politely left. Shocked at this and the fact that my son did absolutely nothing. I am banned from seeing my new granddaughter. Shocked by this behaviour - apart from praying - all I can really do is get on with my life, give the grief and pain to Him, and don't dwell on it. Live this life He has given us. He can do what we cannot do. Pray often and then leave this problem to Him.
