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I'm struggling to find motivation right now.  I feel like a failure.  I failed at a lot of my life's dreams.  Failed become the champion swimmer I wanted to be, I'm failing in my love life, I'm failing as a welder, and I'm failing as a Christian.  I just can't win for losing.  I think my motivation may be in part due to my autism, and my ADHD and just getting distracted by life's unfairness.  I'm questioning why I chose to keep myself for my wife and not give up my virginity to anyone but her.  I fear though that my choice to do so will never pay off.  And that my efforts to stay pure are in vain.  How much longer do I have to wait.  I have already been tempted by several women to sleep with them, and I have refused their offer.  One was my ex, girlfriend, whom I though at the time was the one, but she was not.  It stinks having to wait so long for the right girl.  And It feels like God is holding her back from me.  I'm tired, I'm frustrated, and I just want to meet my future wife.  I keep imagining our close friendship in my head, and am wanting it so bad to become reality.  I don't know how not to think about it.  I just want my princess.  I just want my future bride, and best friend.  But apparently that's never gonna happen  :bawling: .  I don't understand why God won't let me meet her.  Why?  Just Why? I'm missing her so much, that it hurts.  I'm never gonna find her.   :confounded: :dissapointed_relieved: :confounded: :bawling:   Why am I like this? Why am I such a worry wort.  God what are you doing?  Where's my princess? I need her loving touch.  I need her warm hugs.  I need her to be with me now.  I need to see her, to feel her embrace.  Please don't disprive me of her any longer.  Please let today be the day that I meet her.  In Jesus name I pray, Amen.  
 
May our loving God hear and answer your prayer request. In Jesus precious name, Amen!!
Ephesians 3:20 (KJV) Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us
 
Real success takes courage and faith, and has nothing to do with your natural ability.

Joshua is an example of someone who had supernatural success.

God was with Joshua.

When God is with you, you cannot fail.

It doesn't matter who you are, or what you have gone through; what matters is that God is with you and in you (Exodus 3:12).

God's formula for success is based on His ability and not yours.

Before God can release His power in your life, you have to obey His Word.

It takes courage to obey God's Word in the midst of worldly ideals and beliefs.
 

God's Three-Part Formula for Success is fail-proof (Joshua 1: 5, 7, 8).The first part of the formula is to continually speak the Word.

If you want success, talk success.

God instructs you to speak the Word at all times, even when others accuse you of being spiritually "deep" (Deuteronomy 6:7).

It takes planning, scheduling and discipline to talk the Word all the time.

When you hear yourself speak the Word aloud, it enters your heart (Romans 10:17).

Your words reflect what is in your heart (Luke 6:45).

Refocus your attention on the Word.

The second part of the formula is to meditate on the Word of God.

To meditate the Word is to mutter, consider, ponder or rehearse it in your mind until insight comes to you about that scripture.

Think about the Word.

When the Word moves from your head (mental assent) to your heart, it will give birth to your greatest breakthroughs.

When you act on the insight that God gives you, it will produce great increase in your life.

The Holy Spirit's job is to make victory sweatless.

The third part of the formula is to act as though the Word you have been talking about is true, even when the circumstances are difficult.

Believe you receive the Word of God you are standing on (Mark 11:22-24).

Be ready to act out on the Word and maintain your faith stance when pressure comes.

Success according to the world's standard has a price tag of misery attached to it; but the blessing of the Lord makes you rich and no sorrow comes
with it (Proverbs 10:22).
 
Job 22:28 "You will also decree a thing, and it shall be established for you, and light will shine upon your ways! Thank you Father Abba, for providing, we decree it so, all Praises are Yours, Amen

Father God, we speak life believing your word concerning our lives, build your child up, Amen 
 
I'm struggling to find motivation right now.  I feel like a failure.  I failed at a lot of my life's dreams.  Failed become the champion swimmer I wanted to be, I'm failing in my love life, I'm failing as a welder, and I'm failing as a Christian.  I just can't win for losing.  I think my motivation may be in part due to my autism, and my ADHD and just getting distracted by life's unfairness.  I'm questioning why I chose to keep myself for my wife and not give up my virginity to anyone but her.  I fear though that my choice to do so will never pay off.  And that my efforts to stay pure are in vain.  How much longer do I have to wait.  I have already been tempted by several women to sleep with them, and I have refused their offer.  One was my ex, girlfriend, whom I though at the time was the one, but she was not.  It stinks having to wait so long for the right girl.  And It feels like God is holding her back from me.  I'm tired, I'm frustrated, and I just want to meet my future wife.  I keep imagining our close friendship in my head, and am wanting it so bad to become reality.  I don't know how not to think about it.  I just want my princess.  I just want my future bride, and best friend.  But apparently that's never gonna happen  :bawling: .  I don't understand why God won't let me meet her.  Why?  Just Why? I'm missing her so much, that it hurts.  I'm never gonna find her.   :confounded: :dissapointed_relieved: :confounded: :bawling:   Why am I like this? Why am I such a worry wort.  God what are you doing?  Where's my princess? I need her loving touch.  I need her warm hugs.  I need her to be with me now.  I need to see her, to feel her embrace.  Please don't disprive me of her any longer.  Please let today be the day that I meet her.  In Jesus name I pray, Amen.  
Many great people were failures but with trying something enough times and not giving up they were able to accomplish their dreams. You have not meet the right girl but do not give up yet. I would try dating sites and keep trying them and finding events that you like. You will find the right church one day and just lean on God and pray to him. He is with us when we are weak. I know it is hard to not worry but do not worry. I would take the time to start doing things that you love and getting yourself to a spot where you are so happy. I have depression so many times I have to go on walks or I play my violin to break myself out of it.
 
Please  be encouraged!!... King James Bible Psalm 84:11For the LORD God is a sun and shield: the L ORD will give grace and glory: no good thing will he withhold from them that walk uprightly.

King James BiblePsalm 37:4Delight thyself also in the LORD; and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.

May the LORD lead you in all things and you continue to trust in HIM concerning everything..

Blessed is the man who trust int he LORd.. I pray the LORd guides oyu in Every area of your life and trust HIM... blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD... I pray you are comforted.. Praying Christ supplies all your needs... and th emost Vital need.. our need for the LORD. In Jesus Christ name .Choosing Gods ways and trusting HIm always pays off... 

You ar ecomplete in Christ..

King James BibleAnd ye are complete in him, which is the head of all principality and power:
 
Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.
 

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