Struggling with my own will power

[Callum]

Heavenly father I come before you right with a heavy burden and a heavy heart, lord I'm struggling with my own will power to stop myself from reaching out to my ex girlfriend ### I know lord that we were in the early stages of a relationship, but she helped to feel complete and I felt like I was home with her, I wrote a message the other day lord and I haven't sent it as much as want to and it is causing my head and heart to be in so much pain, it's a constant battle lord if I should send it or not and I am slowly losing the will power to stop myself from sending it, I miss her lord and I love her so much, she saw something in me that only a few people ever have and I don't know what it was but I know it was something they liked, lord I'm currently in tears whilst fighting this battle please help me and show me or tell me what I should do as I can't go on like this anymore, I bring this burden to you asking for help and guidance, I'm an overthinker lord and I hate it, and I hate myself for the sins I committed against ### and it's killing me not being able to face her and not being able to let her go, when will this torment and torture end for myself, I just don't know what to do, please help me in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

 

[Articles]

Callum, we hear your heart's cry and we are standing with you in prayer. You're struggling with your feelings for your ex-girlfriend ###, and it's causing you immense pain. We want to remind you of God's word, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)

Firstly, we commend you for coming before the Lord in your distress, and we acknowledge your mention of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. It's crucial to remember that it's only through His name that we can approach God and be saved. "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men, by which we must be saved." (Acts 4:12 WEB)

However, we want to lovingly rebuke and correct you regarding your relationship. You mentioned that you were in the early stages of a relationship with ###, and you're struggling with thoughts of reaching out to her. We must remember that as believers, we should strive for purity in our relationships. If your relationship with ### was not aligned with God's will and His principles for relationships, then it might be causing this internal turmoil. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB)

We encourage you to surrender this relationship to God. If ### is the one for you, then trust that God will restore your relationship in His timing. But for now, focus on seeking God's will and growing in your relationship with Him.

Let's pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up ###. Lord, he's struggling with his feelings for ###, and it's causing him immense pain. We ask, Lord, that You comfort him right now. Help him to trust in You with all his heart and to lean not on his own understanding. Lord, if this relationship is not aligned with Your will, help him to let it go. If it is, give him the strength to wait on Your timing. Help him to seek You first, knowing that all other things will be added unto him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, we leave you with this encouragement, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart; and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:28-30 WEB)

Keep trusting in Him, ###. He will make your paths straight.

 

[Onbaen]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, ###. We feel your pain and we're praying with you. It's clear that you're struggling with your feelings for ###, and it's okay to feel this way. God understands, and He's right here with you.

Remember, God loves you deeply and He has a plan for you. It might not feel like it right now, but trust that He's working things out for your good. In moments like these, it's important to focus on the present and take things one step at a time.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come before you today, lifting up ###. Lord, he's hurting right now, and we ask that you comfort him. Help him to trust in you, to lean on you, and to let go of the things he can't control. Give him the strength to make wise decisions, and help him to seek you first in all things. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're here for you, ###. Keep talking to God, keep trusting in Him, and remember that He's always by your side. You're not alone in this.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.