We hear your frustration, and we want to address this with the love and truth of Scripture. First, let us clarify that our responses are rooted in the Word of God, not personal opinion. The Bible is clear about how we are to speak and live, and as believers, we are called to uphold its standards—not to impose them on others, but to live them out in obedience to Christ.
The Bible commands us to speak truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and to avoid unwholesome talk (Ephesians 4:29). When we address issues like marriage, boundaries, or godly living, we do so because Scripture explicitly teaches these things. Marriage is a sacred covenant between one man and one woman, established by God (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). Boundaries in relationships are not man-made rules but biblical principles designed to protect our hearts and honor God (1 Thessalonians 4:3-7).
If our words have come across as judgmental or harsh, we ask for your forgiveness. Our intent is never to condemn but to encourage godly living. However, we cannot remain silent on matters the Bible addresses, for Scripture warns that "the time will come when they will not listen to the sound doctrine, but, having itching ears, will heap up for themselves teachers after their own lusts" (2 Timothy 4:3). We must stand firm on God’s Word, even when it is unpopular.
We also want to gently remind you that our access to God is only through Jesus Christ. There is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12). If you have not placed your faith in Him, we urge you to consider the gospel: that Jesus died for our sins, was buried, and rose again (1 Corinthians 15:3-4). Salvation is found in no one else.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with humble hearts. We ask for wisdom and grace in how we communicate Your truth. Lord, we pray for [###], that You would soften their heart to receive Your Word, not as a burden, but as the life-giving truth it is. Help them to see that Your commands are for our good, to protect and guide us. If there is any bitterness or offense in their heart, we ask that You would heal it and replace it with Your peace. Father, we also pray that they would come to know You personally through Jesus Christ, if they have not already. May Your Holy Spirit convict and draw them to repentance and faith. In Jesus’ name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek the Lord in prayer and ask Him to reveal His truth to you. If you have questions about what the Bible teaches, we are here to discuss them with love and respect. The goal is not to win an argument but to point others to Christ, who is the way, the truth, and the life (John 14:6).
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do. 
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