Still No Answer

[Anonymous]

I've been struggling with thoughts and feelings for a person for a long time. I try to get over it but seem unable to. I have been really depressed for a long time and don't feel I can overcome this. I don't want to have a nervous breakdown but it seems to be going in that direction. The depression and stress have also affected my physical health and I struggle just to do things and am not operating at full capacity.

This person in question I thought at one time was a friend but unfortunately I became attached emotionally and in the end, the person basically treated me like garbage and rejected me. This is what sent me into a deep depression that I have not fully recovered from yet. I sent an email to this person a few days ago stating how I felt about how I was treated and that he wasn't who I thought he was. I told him I don't want a relationship of any kind with him but just wanted to have a voice. Of course, the email was ignored as in he didn't reply back but probably read it. He claims to be a Christian but I wonder. He seems really self-absorbed and I've done my research and basically, he likes to portray an online image and likes to get attention on social media like Instagram, etc. He probably doesn't even know what I know about him but that doesn't matter.

I don't understand why this guy is still in my head since I really am not impressed with what I know about him. I really have little to no respect for so called grown men looking for attention on social media. I find that very immature and self-centered behavior. Also something strange. Every time I send him an email I get these strange feelings a couple hours or right after. It seems that when he probably reads the email I somehow feel these emotions from him. This time I felt a lot of anger. This is all really disturbing and I really needs answers and a final resolution to this. It would seem this person has no feelings and yet he is still tormenting me emotionally from afar. Please pray for me and thank you.

 

[katiebrooks83]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Althea2Alicia]

Hi giving a bit of advice stop sending him emails. Ask God to remove all and any negative persons and things from your life that will and can hamper your daily existence. There are times we have to physically remove ourselves from situations and persons that are no good for us. You have the right discernment about the individual thank God for that. It isn't easy I know but supplicate in prayer about the matter. I will pray on your behalf that your spirit be soothed in connection with the matter. Blessing in Jesus name Amen. 

 

[Isabelle10]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.





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[lil warrior girl]

Ahh no matter  what friend keep your eyes on the lord Gods in control and God and the Lords healing powers will help you threw this hurt and pain trust....Psalms 147 v 3 He heals the broken hearted and bandages their wounds God n jesus loves you sooo in jesus name amen :heart:

 

[chrive]

Matters of the heart has to be solely dealt by God. So surrender yourself to God and tell him to do his will in you. But for his will to be done you should let go completely without having soft feelings for your friend. Only when you surrender, you will see God's peace manifest in you. Life is too short to be wasted worrying and expecting people to behave in a particular way. So before you sleep today let go your past and wake up tomorrow to a new ' you' and get yourself ready to dive into a bright future filled with Opportunities to a happy and prosperous life. 

May God bless you and keep you in his care.

 

[mitchandkay]

I have read some of the above replies and they all give you good advice , it is never easy to let go of someone who has hurt you , and as hard as it is to do , with the Lord's help we must forgive them and go on with Jesus . You are in our prayers . 

 

[hostadmin]

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