Still hurting Asking for vindication please

Anonymous

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Hi everyone, I’m Still Hurting after what was done to me at my former employer. I will never understand the reasoning behind the cruelty shown toward me. Forgiveness is a very very hard thing for me right now as I remember how those people tried to break me down in always. I received bad advice to stay and not “let THEM” win, but I was losing my self respect and health in the process. I’m looking for another job but the memories of the behavior make me afraid to work in an office setting. I can’t do it. After all of those years wasted and being nearly destroyed. Please pray for me in Jesus name that I will be able to overcome. I do not wish to go back to there place for anything ever age in. All of the leaders lack empathy and only care about their bottom line. The people who witnessed it and blamed me when I spoke out Father in Jesus name this load to way too heavy to carry. Where is the Justice and vindications? I left quietly because I couldn’t fight that battle in my own strength. Forgiveness doesn’t mean reconciling with people who have NO remorse.
 
We hear the deep pain in your words, and we grieve with you over the cruelty and injustice you endured. The wounds inflicted by those who should have shown kindness—especially in a workplace where dignity and respect should prevail—are not easily forgotten. The betrayal of trust, the lack of empathy, and the added burden of being blamed when you spoke out have left scars that run deep. You are not wrong to feel this weight, and we want you to know that your feelings are valid before the Lord. He sees, He knows, and He cares deeply for what has been done to you.

The desire for vindication is a natural cry of the heart when wronged, and Scripture assures us that God is just. He does not overlook the affliction of His people. In **Deuteronomy 32:4**, we read, *"He is the Rock, his work is perfect, for all his ways are justice: a God of truth and without injustice, just and right is he."* And in **Romans 12:19**, we are reminded, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"*) Your pain is seen by Him, and He will act in His perfect timing. Vindication belongs to the Lord, and He will bring justice—whether in this life or the next. You do not have to carry the burden of making things right; that is His work, not yours.

Yet, we must also address the struggle with forgiveness, for it is a commandment—not a suggestion—from our Lord. In **Matthew 6:14-15**, Jesus says, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Forgiveness does not mean what was done to you was acceptable, nor does it require reconciling with those who show no remorse. Forgiveness is an act of obedience to Christ, a release of the poisonous bitterness that, if held onto, will only continue to harm *you*. It is not for their sake, but for yours—that you may walk in freedom and not remain shackled to the past. **Ephesians 4:31-32** urges us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*

We also recognize the fear that now grips you at the thought of returning to an office setting. The trauma you experienced has understandably made you wary, but we encourage you not to let the enemy steal your future because of what was done in the past. **2 Timothy 1:7** declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* The Lord can restore your confidence and lead you to a workplace where you are valued and respected. He can redeem what was stolen from you. Trust that He goes before you, preparing the way. As you seek new employment, lean on Him for wisdom and discernment. **Proverbs 3:5-6** reminds us, *"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."*

Lastly, we commend you for turning to the name of Jesus in your request. There is power in that name—power to heal, to restore, and to break the chains of bitterness and fear. **Acts 4:12** proclaims, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* It is only through Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is in His name that we find our strength. If you have not already, we urge you to surrender this pain fully to Him, asking Him to fill the broken places with His peace and to guide your steps forward.

Let us pray for you now:

Heavenly Father, we lift up our sister before You, who carries the heavy burden of injustice, betrayal, and deep hurt from her former workplace. Lord, You see the cruelty she endured, the lack of empathy from those in authority, and the additional pain of being blamed when she spoke out. Father, we ask that You would be her Vindicator, for You are just and righteous. You have promised that vengeance belongs to You, and we trust that You will repay what has been done in Your perfect timing. Give her the grace to release this into Your hands, knowing that You will make all things right.

Lord Jesus, we ask that You would work in her heart to bring forgiveness—not because those who wronged her deserve it, but because *she* deserves freedom. Heal the bitterness and anger that threaten to take root. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses understanding, and remind her that she does not have to carry this alone. You are her strength, her shield, and her ever-present help in trouble.

Father, we also pray for her future. The enemy has sought to instill fear in her regarding new employment, but we declare that You have not given her a spirit of fear. Open doors for her that no man can shut. Lead her to a workplace where she is treated with dignity, respect, and kindness. Restore her confidence and help her to see herself as You see her—valued, loved, and capable.

We rebuked any spirit of fear, anxiety, or despair that would try to keep her bound to the past. In the name of Jesus, we declare that she is more than a conqueror through Christ who loves her. Lord, surround her with Your favor as a shield. Let Your light shine upon her path, and may she walk in the assurance that You are with her every step of the way.

Finally, Father, we thank You that You are close to the brokenhearted. Comfort her in ways only You can. Let her feel Your presence tangibly, and remind her that her worth is found in You alone. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord daily, even in the midst of this pain. Read His Word, especially the Psalms, where David often cried out to God in his distress—yet always returned to praising Him. You are not alone in this. The body of Christ stands with you, and most importantly, Jesus stands with you. He was despised, rejected, and falsely accused, so He understands your suffering deeply. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He is working all things together for your good, even when it is hard to see. You are loved, you are seen, and your story is not over—God is writing redemption into it.
 
We're here for you, dear friend. We feel your pain and the weight of injustice you've carried. It's not fair what you've been through, and it's okay to feel hurt, angry, and afraid. We want you to know that you're not alone. We're praying for you, and we believe that God sees you, hears you, and is working on your behalf.

We understand the struggle with forgiveness. It's hard, especially when those who wronged you show no remorse. But remember, forgiveness is an act of obedience to Christ, a release for you, not for them. It's about your freedom, not theirs. As it says in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." It's a process, and that's okay. Take it one step at a time.

We also understand your fear of returning to an office setting. The trauma you've experienced is real, and it's normal to feel wary. But remember, God hasn't given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). Trust that He can restore your confidence and lead you to a workplace where you'll be valued and respected. He can redeem what was stolen from you.

Keep seeking Him, dear friend. Read His Word, especially the Psalms. Cry out to Him, but also remember to praise Him. He's close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). Trust that He's working all things together for your good, even when it's hard to see.

We're here for you, praying for you, and believing in you. You're loved, you're seen, and your story isn't over. God is writing redemption into it. Keep your eyes on Him, and trust that He's got you.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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