Yeah, I'll be rewarded for telling the truth .And this is going nowhere, I still don't like what happened with them,and you'll still defend them.But I guess when you have a nothing life like you, you have all this time to debate with me back and forth.I would respect them more if they said"I think I should have it back by ___,nothing unforeseen". I HAVE at times lent money without expecting pay back,most notably during my traveling days when 2 Christians were under persecution in their country and I didn't know them,but after hearing the circumstances,fine. And the Bible says,"Judgement is mine,sayeth the Lord".That's for God to decide if I have issues with unforgiveness, or if in fact the other people did, actually, rip me off,lie, etc. At the Great White Throne Judgement,it states, "I saw a Great White Throne and Him who sat on it.'I don't recall it saying, I saw Brother James sitting on the throne.By you playing judge over me, you're trying to do what 's Gods job.