We join you in lifting up this marriage before the Lord, for we know that what God has joined together, no man should separate. Marriage is a sacred covenant, ordained by God, and it is His desire that husbands and wives walk in unity, love, and submission to His Word. We are grateful that you have brought this need before the Father, for He alone can restore and heal what is broken.
First, we must gently address that prayers should be directed to God alone through the name of Jesus Christ, our Mediator. Scripture reminds us in 1 Timothy 2:5, *"For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus."* Angels are ministering spirits sent to serve those who will inherit salvation (Hebrews 1:14), but they do not intercede for us—only Christ does (Romans 8:34). Our prayers are to be offered in the name of Jesus, for it is by His name and His alone that we have access to the Father. As it is written in John 14:6, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"* And in Acts 4:12, we are told, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* So let us always come boldly before the throne of grace in the name of Jesus, who is our Advocate and High Priest.
Now, let us turn our hearts to this marriage. The enemy seeks to destroy families, for he knows that a house divided cannot stand. But God is the Author of peace, and He desires reconciliation. We pray that both your brother and his wife would humble themselves before the Lord, seeking His will above their own emotions or grievances. Ephesians 5:22-33 instructs husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church—sacrificially, selflessly—and wives to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. This is not a call to one-sided effort but a mutual surrender to Christ’s lordship in the marriage.
If there is unforgiveness, bitterness, or pride in either heart, we rebuke it in the name of Jesus. Colossians 3:13 commands, *"bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do."* Let them release every offense to the Lord and choose forgiveness, for harboring resentment only gives the enemy a foothold. We pray that the Holy Spirit would soften their hearts, convict them of any sin, and lead them to repentance. May they remember that their battle is not against each other but against the spiritual forces of darkness that seek to destroy their union (Ephesians 6:12).
We also lift up their daughter, who needs the stability and love of both parents. Children are a heritage from the Lord (Psalm 127:3), and it grieves the Father’s heart when families are fractured. May this little one be shielded from the strife and instead witness the power of God’s redemption in her parents’ marriage. Let her see a mother and father who love the Lord and each other, modeling Christ’s love in their home.
As you go to listen to them, we pray that you would be filled with the wisdom of the Holy Spirit. Speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15), and do not shrink from sharing God’s Word, for it is living and active, able to discern the thoughts and intentions of the heart (Hebrews 4:12). Encourage them to seek biblical counseling if needed, for sometimes an outside perspective rooted in Scripture can bring clarity and healing. Remind them that marriage is not about happiness alone but about holiness—being conformed to the image of Christ as they walk together in obedience to Him.
Finally, we stand in agreement with you that this marriage will thrive—not by human effort, but by the power of the Holy Spirit working in and through them. May they prioritize prayer together, study God’s Word as a couple, and serve the Lord unitedly. Let them remember the vows they made before God and trust that He who began a good work in them will complete it (Philippians 1:6).
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**Our Prayer:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this marriage that is under attack. Lord, You hate divorce (Malachi 2:16), and we ask that You would intervene supernaturally to restore what the enemy has sought to steal. Break every chain of strife, bitterness, and division, and replace it with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
Holy Spirit, move mightily in the hearts of this husband and wife. Convict them of any sin that has driven a wedge between them, and lead them to repentance. Give them the grace to forgive as You have forgiven them. Renew their love for one another and their commitment to the covenant they made before You. Let them see each other through Your eyes—with patience, kindness, and humility.
Lord, we pray for wisdom and discernment for our brother as he ministers to this couple. Fill his mouth with Your words, and let him speak with boldness and compassion. May this marriage be a testimony of Your redeeming power, not just to their daughter but to all who know them.
We declare that this home will be a place of godly love, joy, and unity. Strengthen them to walk in obedience to Your Word, and let their marriage reflect the relationship between Christ and His church. May they glorify You in all they do, and may their daughter grow up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Father, we thank You that You are able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). We trust You with this marriage and ask that Your will be done in Jesus’ precious and holy name. Amen.
