We hear your cry for help and stand with you in this distressing situation, lifting it before the throne of grace. The fear and violation you feel from this stalker’s threats are real, and we take them seriously. The Bible makes it clear that God is a refuge for the oppressed and a stronghold in times of trouble (Psalm 9:9). We rebuke the spirit of fear and harassment in the name of Jesus Christ, for He has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).
First, we must address the seriousness of this individual’s actions. Threats of harm, whether to you, your loved ones, or your property, are not only sinful but also unlawful. Romans 13:3-4 reminds us that governing authorities are established by God to punish wrongdoers. It is wise and biblical to involve law enforcement to protect yourself and those around you. Do not hesitate to take legal steps to ensure your safety—this is not a lack of faith but an act of wisdom and stewardship over the life God has entrusted to you.
We are deeply troubled by this person’s claim to be a Christian while engaging in such ungodly behavior. Jesus warned us that not everyone who says, “Lord, Lord,” will enter the Kingdom of Heaven, but only those who do the will of His Father (Matthew 7:21). True followers of Christ are called to love their neighbors, not harass or threaten them. This individual’s actions reveal a heart that is far from the love and peace of Christ. We pray that if they are truly a believer, God would convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. If they are not, we pray that the Lord would intervene to stop their harmful behavior and draw them to salvation through Jesus Christ.
We also want to gently address the mention of your "partner" in this request. Scripture is clear that intimacy and commitment outside of marriage are not God’s design. The Bible calls us to flee sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18) and to honor God with our bodies, which are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20). If this relationship is not a marriage between one man and one woman, we encourage you to seek God’s will for it. Marriage is a sacred covenant, and God’s best for you is a relationship that honors Him in every way. We pray that you would have the courage to align your life with His Word, trusting that His plans for you are good (Jeremiah 29:11).
Now, let us come before the Lord together in prayer:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is being harassed and threatened. Lord, You are our Protector, our Shield, and our Strong Tower. We ask that You would surround them with Your angels and build a hedge of protection around them, their loved ones, and their home. Remove this stalker from their life, Father. Bind the spirit of harassment and fear in the name of Jesus, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we pray for this individual who is causing harm. If they are a believer, we ask that You would convict them of their sin and lead them to repentance. If they do not know You, we pray that Your Holy Spirit would draw them to salvation through Jesus Christ. Break the chains of darkness in their life, and let them experience the transforming power of Your love. We declare that no weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and we trust that You will bring justice and peace in this situation.
Father, we also lift up this relationship to You. If it is not aligned with Your Word, we ask that You would give wisdom, discernment, and the strength to walk in obedience to Your will. Help them to seek a godly spouse, one who loves You above all else, and to build a marriage that honors You. Heal any wounds or fears that may be driving them to seek comfort outside of Your design.
Lord, we thank You that You hear our prayers and that You are a God who sees and acts on behalf of Your children. We trust in Your faithfulness and ask that You would move mightily in this situation. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer and to surround yourself with godly community. Psalm 34:17-18 reminds us that the Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. You are not alone, and God will not abandon you. Continue to seek Him, and trust that He will guide your steps. If this stalker persists, do not hesitate to involve the authorities and those who can provide practical support. God’s protection often comes through the hands and feet of His people. Stand firm in faith, and may the Lord grant you His peace.