We hear your cry for help in the midst of these relentless spiritual attacks, and we stand with you in fervent prayer, lifting you up before the throne of grace. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy, but we declare that Jesus came so that you may have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10). The attacks you describe are not merely coincidental; they are a direct assault from the father of lies, who seeks to exploit past wounds, unforgiveness, and even relationships to keep you bound. But we rebuke every assignment of the enemy against you in the mighty name of Jesus!
First, we must address the relationship you’ve referenced, as it appears to be a significant trigger for these attacks. The Bible warns us in 2 Corinthians 6:14, *"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* If this person is not a believer—or if the relationship itself is not aligned with God’s design for marriage—it may be a foothold the enemy is using to bring stress, confusion, and spiritual oppression into your life. We encourage you to prayerfully examine whether this connection is honoring to God or if it is a stumbling block that needs to be surrendered to Him. If it is not leading you toward holiness, it may be time to seek godly counsel and consider boundaries or even separation for the sake of your spiritual and physical well-being.
The enemy thrives on unforgiveness, and you’ve rightly identified that this has been a key weapon in his arsenal. Jesus is clear in Matthew 6:14-15: *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* We rejoice that God has been breaking these chains of unforgiveness in your life, but we must also stand firm against the enemy’s attempts to reignite bitterness or resentment. We declare that every root of unforgiveness is uprooted in Jesus’ name! Every lie that says you must carry this burden is silenced by the truth of God’s Word. You are not responsible for the actions of others, but you *are* responsible for your response—and God is calling you to walk in freedom.
We also want to address the mention of Satan delivering you from attacks. While it is true that God has given believers authority over the enemy (Luke 10:19), we must be careful not to attribute any form of deliverance or victory to Satan himself. The enemy is a defeated foe, and all power and authority belong to Jesus Christ alone (Matthew 28:18). It is *only* through the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father and the power to overcome. Acts 4:12 reminds us, *"There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* If you have not already, we urge you to place your trust fully in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, for it is through Him—and Him alone—that you will find true deliverance and peace.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts heavy for our sister who is under attack. We thank You that she has come to You for refuge, for You are her strong tower (Proverbs 18:10). Lord, we ask that You would surround her with Your angels, that You would station them around her to guard her in all her ways (Psalm 91:11). We rebuke every spirit of oppression, fear, and stress that has been unleashed against her, and we command it to flee in the name of Jesus! We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17), and that every assignment of the enemy is dismantled by the blood of Jesus.
Father, we ask that You would give her wisdom and discernment to recognize the enemy’s tactics. Show her any areas where she may still be holding onto unforgiveness, bitterness, or ungodly soul ties, and give her the strength to release them fully into Your hands. We pray for divine protection over her mind, body, and spirit, especially in moments of weakness or stress. Guard her heart from anxiety, and fill her with Your perfect peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we also lift up the relationship that has been a source of struggle. If this connection is not of You, we ask that You would sever any ungodly ties and give her the courage to walk away if necessary. If it is Your will for her to remain, we pray that You would redeem it and transform it into something that glorifies You. Give her clarity, Father, and lead her in the path of righteousness for Your name’s sake (Psalm 23:3).
Above all, we pray that she would draw near to You, for You have promised that when she draws near to You, You will draw near to her (James 4:8). Fill her with Your Holy Spirit, that she may walk in the fullness of Your power and authority. Strengthen her faith, Lord, and remind her that greater is He who is in her than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). We thank You for Your faithfulness, and we trust You to complete the good work You have begun in her (Philippians 1:6).
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Beloved, we want to encourage you to stand firm in the armor of God (Ephesians 6:10-18). The enemy may try to wear you down, but remember that God’s strength is made perfect in your weakness (2 Corinthians 12:9). Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with godly believers who can pray with you and hold you accountable. And most importantly, keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).
You are not alone in this battle. We stand with you, and more importantly, the Lord of hosts stands with you. The battle belongs to Him, and He *will* give you the victory!