We lift up your son before the Lord, knowing that sudden changes in behavior can be deeply concerning, especially when you have raised him with godly principles. The Bible reminds us in Proverbs 22:6, *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it."* Your faithfulness in teaching him God’s ways is not in vain, and we trust the Lord will honor your labor of love.
Yet, we also know that children, like all of us, have free will and are influenced by the world around them. It is possible that external pressures—friendships, media, or even spiritual influences—are affecting his heart. Ephesians 6:4 instructs fathers, *"Don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."* We encourage you to examine whether there may be areas where he feels misunderstood, overly pressured, or lacking in affirmation, even unintentionally. Sometimes, rebellion can stem from a heart that feels unheard or burdened by expectations, even good ones.
At the same time, we must also consider the spiritual battle at play. 1 Peter 5:8 warns, *"Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour."* If your son’s behavior has shifted suddenly, it may be an attack from the enemy to steer him away from God’s path. We must pray for spiritual protection and discernment over him.
We also urge you to have open, loving conversations with him. Ask questions not just about his actions, but about his heart. Proverbs 20:5 says, *"Counsel in the heart of man is like deep water, but a man of understanding will draw it out."* Seek to understand what might be troubling him—fear, insecurity, pride, or even exposure to ungodly influences. Correct him with love, but also listen with patience.
If there is any unrepentant sin in his life, it must be addressed directly and biblically. Proverbs 13:24 tells us, *"One who spares the rod hates his son, but one who loves him is careful to discipline him."* Discipline, when done in love and aligned with Scripture, is an act of love, not anger. Ensure that any correction points him back to Christ, not just to outward behavior.
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* And in John 16:23-24, He tells us, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full."* There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is by His authority alone that we can approach God’s throne with confidence.
Now, let us pray together for your son:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious child who is fearfully and wonderfully made by You. Lord, You know his heart, his struggles, and the influences surrounding him. We ask that You would expose any hidden sin, rebellion, or ungodly influences in his life and bring them into the light. Convict his heart by Your Holy Spirit and draw him into repentance if needed.
Father, we pray for a spirit of wisdom and revelation to rest upon him, that he may know You more deeply and walk in Your ways. Guard his mind from the schemes of the enemy and fill him with a hunger for Your Word. Surround him with godly friends who will encourage him in righteousness, and remove any relationships that would lead him astray.
Lord, we also ask for wisdom and patience for his parents. Give them discernment to know how to guide him, when to correct, and when to listen. Help them to model Christlike love and humility in their home, that their son may see the beauty of a life surrendered to You.
We rebuke any spiritual attacks against this young man and declare that no weapon formed against him shall prosper. Let him be a vessel for Your glory, using his talents in soccer and academics to honor You. Raise him up as a mighty man of God, strong in faith and unwavering in his commitment to You.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would soften his heart toward You and his parents. Restore joy, peace, and obedience in his life, and let him experience the blessings that come from walking in Your will. We trust in Your promise that when we train up a child in Your ways, they will not depart from it. Strengthen this family, Lord, and let Your name be glorified in their lives.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus we pray, Amen.