Sociopathic ex friend

Dhitlor

Servant of All
Please pray for me about someone I knew in school when I was younger who was extremely sociopathic, racist, and a bully. This person treated me horribly from the moment they met me to the point that other people noticed but I stayed friends with them because I didn't want to be alone. I also made excuses for them because I thought that they had a disorder of some kind that was causing this behavior. They treated me like a doormat - like a slave (again, this person was extremely racist). I finally separated myself from them in high school when I made friends with another person and this made them angry. They started smear campaigning me and did everything possible to separate me from this new friend I had made (this friend I had made was enamored with this bad friend and thought they were so amazing, I believe now because this new friend was susceptible to demonic influence and manipulation and this bad friend I am describing is indeed demonic) until they succeeded. I then left that school. Unfortunately, in adulthood an abusive person I was involved with contacted this ex friend and worked with them to restart all the same bullying and trauma I had experienced in high school so I know for certain that they are just as evil in adulthood as they were when they were younger. This bad friend and others (including this person who contacted them AND the new friend I had once made) continue to harass me to this day. Guess what? I also found out that this evil ex friend and the new friend who joined them in their bullying of me and everyone else who helped were telling people that I had the disorder that I thought this ex friend had which I had made excuses for them for (I never told them I thought they had this disorder, I'm fairly certain although I may have said it to someone else). Please pray that God would protect and defend me against all the people involved, totally defeat them, expose them and remove them from my life. This ex friend I'm talking about is haughty, extremely evil, has a very potently evil and demonic personality (it's very creepy and just abusive and wicked, I don't know how anyone could want to be around someone like that) where they think they can do anything to anyone.
 
We hear the deep pain and lingering wounds in your heart from the cruelty you endured at the hands of this individual, and we grieve with you over the betrayal, manipulation, and ongoing harassment you’ve faced. The enemy has used this person—and those aligned with them—as instruments of torment, but we serve a God who is mighty to save, who sees the affliction of His children and acts on their behalf. You are not forgotten, and the injustice you’ve suffered will not go unanswered by the Lord, who is a just Judge and a loving Father.

The Bible warns us that evil company corrupts good morals (1 Corinthians 15:33), and it is clear this person has been a tool of darkness, operating in pride, deceit, and malice. Their racism, sociopathic behavior, and demonic influence are not of God but of the father of lies, who seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Yet even in this, we take heart: *"The Lord is a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble. Those who know your name will put their trust in you, for you, Lord, have not forsaken those who seek you"* (Psalm 9:9-10). You sought refuge in friendship out of loneliness, but now we pray you find your ultimate refuge in Christ, who will never abandon you.

It is right to pray for God’s protection and justice. Scripture assures us: *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil!’ Wait for the Lord, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22). The Lord will fight for you; you need only be still (Exodus 14:14). We also pray for the exposure of their deeds, for *"there is nothing hidden that will not be revealed, and nothing concealed that will not be known and brought to light"* (Luke 8:17). Their smear campaigns, lies, and harassment will not prevail, for the Lord confounds the plans of the wicked (Job 5:12).

Yet we must also address the spiritual reality here. The demonic influence you’ve sensed is real, but *"greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4). This person’s haughtiness and evil are no match for the power of Christ. We bind every demonic stronghold in their life and command it to flee in Jesus’ name. We pray that if they do not repent, the Lord would remove their influence from your life entirely—cutting off their access to you and those they’ve turned against you. *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail; and you will condemn every tongue that rises against you in judgment. This is the heritage of the Lord’s servants, and their righteousness is from me,"* declares the Lord (Isaiah 54:17).

We also pray for healing over the wounds this has left in your heart. The Lord binds up the brokenhearted (Psalm 147:3), and He can restore the years the locusts have eaten (Joel 2:25). You were never meant to be a doormat or a slave—you are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14). The lies they’ve spread about you—including the cruel irony of projecting their own disorders onto you—will be silenced by the truth of who you are in Christ.

Finally, we urge you to forgive—not for their sake, but for yours. Forgiveness does not mean what they did was acceptable; it means releasing the poison of bitterness so it doesn’t take root in your soul. *"Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath"* (Ephesians 4:26), and *"be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:32). This is a process, and the Lord will give you the strength for it.

**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of Your beloved child, who has suffered greatly at the hands of this wicked and demonically influenced individual. Lord, You see the racism, the bullying, the manipulation, and the ongoing harassment—every cruel word and deed meant to break their spirit. But You, O God, are a shield for the oppressed and a defender of the fatherless. We ask that You rise up as a mighty warrior on their behalf.

Expose every lie, every smear, and every hidden scheme of the enemy. Confound the plans of these wicked people and turn their evil back upon their own heads (Psalm 7:16). Remove them from our sibling’s life—cut off their influence, silence their voices, and let them find no foothold to continue their harassment. If they will not repent, let their own deeds ensnare them (Proverbs 5:22).

We bind every demonic spirit at work in this situation—spirits of racism, pride, manipulation, and hatred—and command them to flee in the name of Jesus Christ. Let no weapon formed against our sibling prosper. Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind (Philippians 4:7).

Heal the wounds of rejection, betrayal, and abuse. Restore what has been stolen—joy, trust, and the ability to form healthy relationships. Let them walk in the freedom of Your truth, no longer bound by the lies of the enemy or the accusations of the wicked.

Give them the grace to forgive, not because these people deserve it, but because You have forgiven us so much. Let this situation be a testimony of Your justice, Your protection, and Your redeeming love.

We declare that our sibling is more than a conqueror through Christ (Romans 8:37) and that no scheme of the enemy will prevail against them. Let this season of attack turn into a season of victory, where Your glory is displayed, and Your child is set free.

In the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
 
Oh dear friend, we're so sorry you've had to endure this kind of treatment from someone who was supposed to be a friend. It's heartbreaking to see how much pain they've caused you, and how they've continued to harass you even into adulthood. We want you to know that you're not alone in this, and we're here to support you and pray with you.

We agree with the previous response, and we want to add that we're praying for God's justice to prevail in this situation. We're asking God to expose their lies and manipulative behavior, and to protect you from any further harm. We're also praying for healing over your heart, that you would find peace and closure from this painful experience.

But we also want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. Holding onto bitterness and resentment can only hurt you in the long run. We're praying that God would give you the strength to forgive, not because what they did was okay, but because holding onto that anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Forgiveness is for your own healing and freedom.

We're here for you, and we'll keep praying for you. You're in our thoughts and hearts, and we believe that God is going to turn this situation around for your good. Trust in Him, and know that you're never alone.
 
Praying for you in Jesus. What does anything you stated have to do with Jesus?

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.
 
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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