We hear the deep pain and desperation in your words, and our hearts ache for the suffering you are enduring. No one should have to live in fear, abuse, or isolation, especially within what should be a place of love and safety. You are not forgotten by God, and He sees the injustice you are facing. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18). He promises to be a father to the fatherless and a defender of the oppressed (Psalm 68:5-6). You are precious in His sight, and He has not abandoned you, even when it feels as though the world has turned its back.
The abuse you describe is grievous in the eyes of God. Scripture is clear that parents are to nurture, not harm, their children. Ephesians 6:4 commands, "You fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." What you are experiencing is not of God, and it is not something you must endure without hope. The Lord calls us to seek freedom from oppression and to live in dignity as His children. He does not will for you to remain in a place where your spirit, body, or mind is being broken. You have the right—as a child of God—to seek safety, independence, and a life free from abuse.
We also recognize the deep loneliness and isolation you are experiencing. The lack of community and the loss of friendships can feel like an unbearable burden, but we urge you to remember that God is your ever-present help. He promises in Hebrews 13:5, "I will never leave you or forsake you." Even when human relationships fail, His love remains steadfast. We encourage you to seek out a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can find support, fellowship, and godly counsel. The body of Christ is meant to be a family for those who are alone (Galatians 6:2). If you are unable to attend in person, many churches offer online services and small groups where you can begin to connect with others. Do not give up hope—God can restore what has been broken, including relationships.
Your desire for independence is understandable, and we pray that God would open doors for you to achieve it in a way that honors Him. Trust that He is able to provide for you, even when the economy or circumstances seem impossible. Jesus reminds us in Matthew 6:33, "But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." This does not mean the path will be easy, but it does mean that as you seek Him, He will guide your steps. We encourage you to pray for wisdom (James 1:5) and to take practical steps toward independence, such as seeking job training, education, or counseling that could help you move forward. If you are in immediate danger, we urge you to reach out to local authorities or organizations that can provide safety and support. You do not have to face this alone.
We must also address the fear and hopelessness that may be weighing on your heart. The enemy wants you to believe that there is no way out, but that is a lie. God is greater than any circumstance, and He is able to deliver you. Psalm 34:17 says, "The righteous cry, and Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles." Cry out to Him, and trust that He is working, even when you cannot see it. Do not let bitterness or despair take root in your heart, for the Lord is your hope. Romans 15:13 declares, "Now may the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, that you may abound in hope, in the power of the Holy Spirit."
Lastly, we notice that your request does not mention the name of Jesus, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said in John 14:6, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ, we urge you to do so. He is the only One who can truly save you, heal you, and set you free. Place your trust in Him, and He will be your strength. If you have already accepted Jesus as your Savior, then cling to Him now more than ever. Call upon His name, for there is power in it (Acts 4:12).
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Let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious child of Yours who is suffering in silence, trapped in a place of abuse, isolation, and despair. Lord, You see the tears they have cried, the fear they carry, and the longing in their heart for freedom and love. We ask that You would be their refuge and strength, their ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and protect them from the evil that seeks to harm them. Break the chains of oppression in their life, and make a way where there seems to be no way.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of fear and hopelessness that has taken hold, and we declare that You are their hope and their deliverer. Fill them with Your peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7) and remind them that they are not alone—for You are with them. Lord, provide for their every need as they seek first Your Kingdom. Open doors for independence, safety, and community. Lead them to a church family that will embrace them, support them, and walk with them in this season.
We pray for their parents, Lord. Soften their hearts and convict them of the harm they have caused. Bring them to repentance, Father, and if it is Your will, restore this relationship in a way that honors You. But even if that does not happen, we ask that You would give this dear one the strength to forgive and the courage to walk away from toxicity. Help them to set healthy boundaries and to trust You for their future.
Lord, we ask that You would bring godly friends into their life—people who will encourage them, pray with them, and point them to You. Heal the wounds of rejection and betrayal, and replace their loneliness with Your love. Remind them that they are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14) and that You have a purpose for their life.
Most of all, Father, draw them closer to You. Let them experience Your presence in a tangible way. If they do not know Jesus as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day they surrender their life to Him. If they do know Him, we pray that their faith would be strengthened and that they would find their identity in Christ alone.
We ask all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
