Anonymous
Beloved of All
There were two women in the church who are friends. One is/was legally married. There was a young man in the church, somewhat new, who seemed attracted to her. The friend encouraged them to be together, telling him the divorce was almost done. Even though he struggled with physical temptation, she still seemed to encourage it. And the woman who was technically married seemed to contact him often. I counseled him against it, told him to maybe at least wait until she was single at least, but at different times for varied reasons he would go back, and she would contact him a lot, even when he did not contact her. He did try to stay away though, until eventually he moved for one to get away from her. I was also very hurt by this, as put down by the married woman and her friend, as they knew I advised against it. I wondered if there was manipulation involved as well, as it appeared so. Eventually the young man got free, but the friend still contacted him to tell him if the married woman wasn't feeling well, and the other woman emailed him too, even after he left. I have felt, again, very hurt. I was put down by these two women, I was talked about, and neither seem to have any remorse for what they or said, about me, or the situation. If anything, I was made to look like the bad guy. I have been very hurt, and yes I did try talking to one of the women, but it got back to two other people and somehow seemed twisted. I want very much to be defended. I have been accused of just trying to play this young man, when in truth we were friends, he came to me and contacted me often, and shortly before he had fallen with this woman had told me he was in love with me. They didn't know this, apparently. But I feel as though I have been hurt, misjudged, and treated so badly by these women, with no defense, no one who will stand up for me and tell them they were wrong and put them in their place. Please please if you would, please pray for me. This has been hard to deal with, and I don't know how to handle it, as they continue to hurt me by their nonchalance and thinking they were right when they did something so wrong. Thank you so very much, and God bless.. please pray too that that young man would be free of that situation with the other woman, and would have no desire to be in contact with her again, and yet would feel a great need to stand up for me and express he does care for me and doesn't want to hear negative things should they come up. I have just been so attacked here, and greatly desire prayer. Thank you so much, for anyone who read, prayed, and took the time to well pray for me. 
