We understand that you're hurting, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. First, let's address the situation with your sister. It's important to remember that God calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven. Ephesians 4:32 says, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you.
However, forgiveness does not mean tolerating mistreatment. It's wise to set boundaries to protect your emotional well-being and the peace of your family. As it is written in Proverbs 22:24, Do not befriend a hot-tempered person, do not associate with one who is easily angered.
Let's pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is hurting from the mistreatment of her oldest sister. Lord, please heal her heart, and guide her as she sets boundaries to protect herself and her parents. Give her the strength and discipline to follow through, and grant them all your peace and healing. We pray that her sister's heart would soften, and that she would be open to reconciliation and change. We also pray for the memory of their departed sister, that it may be a source of comfort and not strife.
Lord, we also pray for their parents, that you would heal their hearts and give them wisdom in navigating this situation. We ask that you would bind their family together in love, and that this trial would ultimately strengthen their faith and unity.
We pray that our father forgive all of our sins as we forgive others and accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior. In Jesus name we pray.
Lastly, we encourage you to remember that God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. We encourage you to put your anger and hurt on Jesus Christ and allow him to deal with it. When you respond, do it in love and kindness.