Please pray for me about my relationship with my ###. There seems to be some hostility between us (unless I'm just imagining things) and I feel it started last night - again, unless I'm imagining things. I didn't do anything to cause this. Whatever is going on, it's bringing up a lot of negative emotions about her because sometimes she can really mistreat me, my parents (and my ### who passed away). She has emotional, mental and behavioral problems and is likely demonized (many of the people in my life are). Thank you.
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We hear your heart and the pain you’re carrying in this strained relationship. It’s clear this situation has brought up deep wounds, and we want to stand with you in prayer and truth. First, we must address the spiritual reality you’ve mentioned—demonization is a serious matter, and we take it seriously as Scripture does. The enemy seeks to sow discord, bitterness, and confusion, especially among family and those close to us. But we serve a God who is greater, and in His name, we rebuke every spirit of division, accusation, and mistreatment that may be at work here. "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places" (Ephesians 6:12).
Your feelings are valid, and it’s not wrong to acknowledge the hurt caused by mistreatment—even if it comes from someone struggling with their own battles. However, we must also guard our hearts against bitterness, as it can take root and defile us (Hebrews 12:15). Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior, but it does mean releasing the offender to God and refusing to let anger control you. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32).
We also want to gently encourage you to examine whether there are any areas where you might be contributing to the tension, even unintentionally. Sometimes our own insecurities or past hurts can color our perceptions, making us more sensitive to slights. Ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart: "Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way" (Psalm 139:23-24). If there’s anything to repent of, do so quickly, but if not, stand firm in the truth that you are not responsible for another’s sin.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this sister to You, asking for Your peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Where there is confusion, bring clarity; where there is pain, bring healing; where there is division, bring reconciliation according to Your will.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of strife, accusation, and mistreatment that may be influencing this relationship. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). We ask for Your protection over her emotions and mind, that she would not be overwhelmed by negative thoughts or memories.
Lord, we pray for her sister—for her healing, deliverance, and salvation if she does not know You. Soften her heart, Father, and reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. If there are generational strongholds at work, we break them now in Jesus’ name. We ask that You would surround her with godly influences who can speak truth and life into her situation.
Help our sister to walk in forgiveness, even when it’s hard. Remind her that You are her defender and that vengeance belongs to You (Romans 12:19). Give her wisdom in how to interact with her sister—whether that means setting boundaries, speaking truth in love, or simply praying from a distance. Fill her with Your love, which covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).
Above all, Lord, we ask that You would be glorified in this situation. Use it to draw both of them closer to You and to one another, if that is Your will. Let Your light shine in the darkness, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to God’s promises and to seek His face daily. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and speak life into your situation. And remember, you are not alone—God sees your tears, hears your prayers, and is working even when you can’t see it. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit" (Psalm 34:18). Stand firm in faith, sister, and trust that God is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you.
Your feelings are valid, and it’s not wrong to acknowledge the hurt caused by mistreatment—even if it comes from someone struggling with their own battles. However, we must also guard our hearts against bitterness, as it can take root and defile us (Hebrews 12:15). Forgiveness doesn’t mean excusing harmful behavior, but it does mean releasing the offender to God and refusing to let anger control you. "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:31-32).
We also want to gently encourage you to examine whether there are any areas where you might be contributing to the tension, even unintentionally. Sometimes our own insecurities or past hurts can color our perceptions, making us more sensitive to slights. Ask the Holy Spirit to search your heart: "Search me, God, and know my heart. Try me, and know my thoughts. See if there is any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way" (Psalm 139:23-24). If there’s anything to repent of, do so quickly, but if not, stand firm in the truth that you are not responsible for another’s sin.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we can be saved and approach Your throne. Lord, we lift up this sister to You, asking for Your peace to guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus. Where there is confusion, bring clarity; where there is pain, bring healing; where there is division, bring reconciliation according to Your will.
Father, we rebuke every spirit of strife, accusation, and mistreatment that may be influencing this relationship. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against her in judgment, You will condemn (Isaiah 54:17). We ask for Your protection over her emotions and mind, that she would not be overwhelmed by negative thoughts or memories.
Lord, we pray for her sister—for her healing, deliverance, and salvation if she does not know You. Soften her heart, Father, and reveal Yourself to her in a powerful way. If there are generational strongholds at work, we break them now in Jesus’ name. We ask that You would surround her with godly influences who can speak truth and life into her situation.
Help our sister to walk in forgiveness, even when it’s hard. Remind her that You are her defender and that vengeance belongs to You (Romans 12:19). Give her wisdom in how to interact with her sister—whether that means setting boundaries, speaking truth in love, or simply praying from a distance. Fill her with Your love, which covers a multitude of sins (1 Peter 4:8).
Above all, Lord, we ask that You would be glorified in this situation. Use it to draw both of them closer to You and to one another, if that is Your will. Let Your light shine in the darkness, and may Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts. We ask all of this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to God’s promises and to seek His face daily. Spend time in His Word, for it is a lamp to your feet and a light to your path (Psalm 119:105). Surround yourself with believers who can pray with you and speak life into your situation. And remember, you are not alone—God sees your tears, hears your prayers, and is working even when you can’t see it. "The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a contrite spirit" (Psalm 34:18). Stand firm in faith, sister, and trust that God is faithful to complete the good work He has begun in you.
Dear sister, we're here with you, feeling the weight of the tension in your relationship with your sister. It's tough when those we love hurt us, especially when they're struggling themselves. We're lifting this up to the Lord, asking Him to bring clarity, healing, and ultimately, reconciliation according to His will.
We've been praying for you, sister. We're asking God to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, to bring peace where there's confusion, and to heal the pain you're feeling. We're also praying for your sister - for her healing, deliverance, and salvation if she doesn't know Jesus. We're asking God to soften her heart and reveal Himself to her in a powerful way.
We're reminding ourselves, and you, that God is faithful. He sees your tears, hears your prayers, and is working even when you can't see it. We're standing with you, sister, and we're here to pray with you and speak life into your situation. Keep clinging to God's promises, spend time in His Word, and surround yourself with believers who can pray with you.
Let's keep trusting in God's faithfulness together. He is near to those who have a broken heart, and He saves those who have a contrite spirit. Stand firm in faith, sister. God is working in you and will complete the good work He has begun.
We've been praying for you, sister. We're asking God to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, to bring peace where there's confusion, and to heal the pain you're feeling. We're also praying for your sister - for her healing, deliverance, and salvation if she doesn't know Jesus. We're asking God to soften her heart and reveal Himself to her in a powerful way.
We're reminding ourselves, and you, that God is faithful. He sees your tears, hears your prayers, and is working even when you can't see it. We're standing with you, sister, and we're here to pray with you and speak life into your situation. Keep clinging to God's promises, spend time in His Word, and surround yourself with believers who can pray with you.
Let's keep trusting in God's faithfulness together. He is near to those who have a broken heart, and He saves those who have a contrite spirit. Stand firm in faith, sister. God is working in you and will complete the good work He has begun.
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