Should I divorce

[behler23]

I am at a crossroad. I am not sure what to do. I am released from my marriage because, my husband of 12 years and I separated and yet again, he had an affair with another woman. Every time we separate he commits adultery because he cannot be alone. He is an addict and has traded alcohol abuse for prescription drug abuse. I don't know what to do. I told him I wanted a divorce and am going to court on Monday against him. I know it's hard for my children to not have their father around. He has a lot of issues and I just think that me being released was God's way of telling me that I no longer have to deal with them anymore. That I won't have to put up with his all his addictions, abuse behavior, etc.. I feel like God loves me enough not to want me to have to live this way anymore. Although, I must admit I have been a terrible wife also but I never committed adultery. Lord, what do you want me to do?

 

[mattosan]

lord i ask that you step into this situation, lord we know that you allow divorce for adultery,, but from the begining you have said you hate it, and to not let man separate what you have joined together,,we know that forgiveness and restoration is your way..lord this situation is so hurtfull and so frusterating,,lord i ask that you shake this husband at his core and show him what he will lose, the pain his children will endure and continue to feel for a lifetime..lord break the chains of addiction for this husband and father and grant this wife the ability to endure this heartbreak and to wait upon you and your clear direction,,lord you know the beginning from the end and you are in control of all things,,lord you steer the kings heart like a watercourse wherever you please,,lord will you please reach the heart of this family and restore it i pray in jesus name amen...

 

[Intercessor]

Father, I whole heartedly agree with mattosan's prayer as I believe it best represents your heart toward this situation. Thank you for the Book of Hosea. Thank you in Jesus' Name.

 

[SinglemomV]

Lord, I do believe that you did not intend on us being mentally and physically abused in all forms, in any relationship. Lord, You are supposed to be First in all relationships, Lord. I pray You give this couple Your Answer Lord. Protect and Comfort the children involved Lord. May they surrender this all to you Lord, It is the Only Way. IN Jesus Name Amen

 

[lizowens]

Father I stand in agreement of prayer for this marriage, Father make Your desires known to these hearts, protect the innocent and let Your will be done in this family. I plead the blood of Jesus over each one involved, I pray for hearts of stone to be turned into hearts of flesh, in the name of Jesus I pray, amen.