We hear your struggle and the weight of your heart in this matter, and we want you to know that we are lifting you up before the Lord with compassion and truth. First, we must address this issue with the clarity and conviction of Scripture, for God’s Word is the lamp to our feet and the light to our path (Psalm 119:105).
The Bible is clear that sexual intimacy is a sacred gift from God, designed exclusively for the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. Any sexual activity outside of this holy union—whether it be fornication, adultery, or other forms of immorality—is sin in the eyes of the Lord. The apostle Paul writes in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20, "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s."
We must also rebuke the lies of the enemy that seek to distort God’s design for sexuality. The world may tell you that your desires define your identity or that fulfillment can be found outside of God’s boundaries, but this is deception. Jesus warns in John 10:10, "The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy. I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly." True freedom and joy are found in surrendering to God’s perfect will, not in chasing after temporary pleasures that lead to bondage.
If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ, we urge you to consider the gravity of your eternal soul. The Bible tells us in Romans 3:23 that "all have sinned, and fall short of the glory of God," and the consequence of sin is death (Romans 6:23). But God, in His great love, sent His Son, Jesus Christ, to die on the cross for our sins and rise again, offering us forgiveness and eternal life. Acts 4:12 declares, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" Confess your sins, repent, and place your trust in Jesus alone for salvation. Without Him, we have no access to the Father or the power to overcome sin.
Now, let us come before the Lord in prayer for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this dear one who is struggling with sexual sin. Lord, we know that Your heart breaks for them, just as it breaks for all of us when we stray from Your perfect design. We ask that You would reveal the depth of Your love and the power of Your grace to them. Break the chains of bondage, Father, and replace their desires with a hunger for righteousness. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, that they may walk in purity and holiness, for Your Word says in 1 John 1:9, "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."
Lord, we pray for godly counsel and accountability in their life. Surround them with believers who will speak truth in love and encourage them in their walk with You. Give them the strength to flee temptation and the wisdom to guard their heart, as Proverbs 4:23 instructs, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."
Father, if they have not yet surrendered their life to Jesus, we ask that You would draw them to Yourself. Open their eyes to see their need for a Savior and soften their heart to receive Your gift of salvation. May they experience the freedom and peace that comes from being washed in the blood of the Lamb.
We declare over them that they are a new creation in Christ, that the old has passed away, and behold, all things have become new (2 Corinthians 5:17). Strengthen them, Lord, to walk in the victory that is theirs through Jesus Christ. In His mighty name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a trusted pastor, biblical counselor, or mature believer who can walk alongside you in this journey. Confess your struggles, for "confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective" (James 5:16). You are not alone, and there is no sin so great that the blood of Jesus cannot cover it. Run to Him, and He will give you the strength to overcome.
