Separated Recently Will Not Communicate With Me

[poncecarlos]

It started out last year. I started to ignore and emotionally hurt my wife. I was getting angry easily. I let myself think she would never leave me and she will always love me. She even said how are you so sure of your self. I put more attention to work and my co-workers. I know I let all our success and accomplishments get to me. This year she started to talk to a couple of guys from India and Pakistan though social media. She told them she thought our marriage was over. So they started moving in to comfort her emotions and make it seem I was now the bad person. They keep giving her bad advice. They tell her to stop talking to me and to divorce me. The Indian guy constantly would stay online and talk to her. Now she believes she is in love with him and that God brought him to her life. She has never met any of these people. My wife then tried to give me a chance but was still talking to them and at the first chance she said she wants to be separated. She said that they told her to stop all communication with me. When she was giving me a chance she was sending this man money through western union and mailing him expensive clothes. She is having an emotional affair with a person she never met or probably never will. He messages me telling me that I need to divorce her so he can marry her and that I need to die that I don't deserve a wife and daughter. That he loves them more than anyone. I did mess up because there was a time when she was calling me to come and I didn't. Now I feel like I blew all the chances I was given. She will not make any contact with me. She says to leave her alone and give her space. I know the mistakes I have made. I do love her. I have been attending a life group and going to church and trying to change my bad habits. She doesn't know because she won't talk to me. I don't know what else to do. She has stopped every form of communication even through our daughter. She's changed her phone number and emails. We have been married for 8 years and have been together for 15 years.

I don't know what else to do. I don't have any friends or family to talk to.

 

[Revathy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[richard14]

In the name and finished work of our Lord Jesus Christ we trust and pray.

Amen

 

[Rick1]

We are hard-pressed on every side, yet not crushed; we were perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not forsaken; struck down, but not destroyed (2 Corinthians 4:8-9)

And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to His purpose (Romans 8:28)

 

[GregnBrandy]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Eric49]

I pray the Lord give you His peace right now.

I pray that the Lord's will be done in your relationship and in you. Not your wife's will, not man's will, but God's will.

I pray that you turn to the Lord and let Him guide and protect you and heal your life.

In Jesus name.

 

[ServantofYeshua]

I pray that this person Praises you Yeshua HaMaschiach of Nazareth ( Jesus Christ ) for this situation that they are going through, and believe in the victory they can claim that is rightfully theirs through your Powerful blood and Sacrifice.

​       Thank you Elohim Y-H-W-H for your will being done in their life. Amen. May my lips and their Lips Praise you and your Son in all situations. 

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[poncecarlos]

After I posted this request, she talked to me again. Thank you for your prayers. It's just the start.

 

[Stitcher]

I prayed for this. In Jesus Name. Amen.

Many churches have Divorce Care or other support groups.

There is also a one-time Friday-Saturday seminar for divorce and reconciling people called Fresh Start (look for notices of this being held online or in papers, etc.). Both offer support for someone who wants to reconcile -- it is not all about divorce -- but they mostly offer help in taking care of yourself during this time.

Most churches have a support group to help children whose parents are currently split up, which is usually held at the same time as the parent's Divorce Care support group. This is a weekly support group.

 

[mercyschild]

Prayed. In Jesus name, amen